John and Sarah Post in
Early Ware
By Doreen Dolleman
I feel it is important to
reconsider the validity of accepted info from the Red Book, which gives the
death date of Thankful, wife of Capt. Jabez as 20 March 1745. No source is
given for that date and it is not in Ware vital records. However, the death
date of Sarah, wife of John Post, is in Ware records as 20 March 1745. It has
always been my opinion that Sarah Post was the sister of Capt. Jabez.
In "History of Hampshire
County" there are 2 paragraphs about the family of Capt. Jabez under the
heading of "The First Settlers". The 3rd paragraph is about John Post
- it says that he was a relative of Olmsttead and lived on the Lathrop farm,
which was part of Olmstead's purchase. [Note by COH: The Ware plat in the first
issue of the Newsletter shows that the Post property was adjacent to the
Olmstead property.] The very next sentence says, "His wife's death is
recorded March 20, 1745." That was referring to John Post's wife, not
Jabez Olmstead's wife.
I believe it is very likely that long ago someone misinterpreted
that sentence to mean the death date of Thankful, rather than Sarah and it was
printed in the Red Book and now is accepted as fact. It does not seem likely
that both women died on the same date, although it would not be impossible. I
am suspicious because there is no source for Thankful's death date and she is
not recorded in Ware VR's. My guess would be that she died closer to 1748
shortly before Jabez remarried.
[Note by COH: The article on
the early history of Ware in the November 2000 Newsletter contains the petition
that the early settlers made to the General Court in 1744. John Post was one of
the signers of that Petition. He was frequently elected clark, assessor,
moderator and assessor in the early Ware Town meetings.]