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example, take the women on the talk shows who come on their ready to kill
each other over a man who is fucking them both. I can't see how in the
world those women could lie down with the man, rather less get sexual
enjoyment out of being with him. But, that's my point, most women won't
play that shit. You better make her ass feel like she is the one or you
won't be getting none. Ya know?
As for the actual act of making love, women love to kiss because kissing
on the mouth is the most intimate sex act of all. Which is why some
prostitutes won't do it at all; it is so personal. But, when you kiss a
woman, don't slobber all over her mouth, don't try to suck both of her
lips into your mouth like you a fucking hoover vacuum and don't try to
shove your tongue down her throat. Move your tongue in slow, circular
motions. Men kill me when they move their tongues so fast, you think they
are running in a race or something. Men can benefit greatly from the
tongue exercises I covered in the "How To Really Fuck A Man"
manual so do that shit.
Women love their nipples sucked. Hell, when a man sucks my nipples the
right way and for a healthy period of time, my ass will cum like all hell
and I am not alone. The problem is most men are in such a hurry to get to
the coochie-coo, they don't pay our nipples enough attention. They suck
each tit about 30 seconds and think they done. Fuck all that!!!! You need
to give the woman at least a good ten minutes of nipple concentration.
And don't just suck on her nipples, lick up underneath her breasts and
suckle on the whole thing. Take both breasts your hands and suck on both
nipples at the same time; drives a woman crazy and makes her feel so
desired. A word to the ladies though, if you planning on having sex, don't
put powder all over your breasts. I understand those with big breastesses
wear powder at times to keep them bad boys from sweating, especially in
summer, but men don't want to have to ingest powder either off the breasts
or the pussy when they do down on you.
Now, let's do a brief overview of eating the pussy. Yes, eating pussy. For
those men who still only go downtown only to window shop, I have a
revelation for you. Unless you start making some purchases while you are
there, your lady might find a frequent buyer someplace else. While being
caressed with the hands and fingers is a great turn on also, there is
nothing like a man eating your pussy good.
But.... there are a few things I should say to those men who think they
belong in the Pussy Eater's Hall of Fame but really belong in the
visitor's line to get in and see the pictures of the ones who are really
in there. A woman's clit is very sensitive and can't take a great deal of
direct stimulation. You should concentrate more on the areas around the
clit and never try to shove your tongue all the way in her pussy and, for
goodness sake, never bite on the clit. Chances are, if you are doing that,
the times you think a woman is trying to pull away from you cause the
pleasure is too much for her and you grab for her and tell her to
"give you your pussy back", her ass is pulling away cause that
shit hurts.
Also, when you are eating a woman's pussy, use your hands to caress her
breasts. In fact, use one hand to caress her breasts and finger her ass
with the other. You would be surprised how many women experience a feeling
of loneliness while a man is eating them out. You have your head buried
between her legs and she is staring at the ceiling. Some more
sexually-open women, those who masturbate and I can't stress the benefits
of that enough :-), take the initiative and fondle their own breasts but
they shouldn't have to. So use all available hands and get busy with more
than just your tongue.
I am gonna make this short cause this is making me horny.
As for the actual sex itself, here is the nitty gritty.
Most men have the misconception that women feel the bigger the dick, the
greater the pleasure. Ummm, naw. While I will be the first one to admit
that looking at big dicks can be sexually arousing just like big breasts
on a woman sexually arouse men, I am not fucking a man with an abnormal
size dick and most women I know would agree. Just like breasts, more than
a mouthful is a waste and there is no way in hell a normal woman can deep
throat a long ass, thick dick and riding one or having it inside you can
be extremely painful.
I like men with normal size dicks. What is normal? I would say a good size
is anywhere from 7-10 inches. Personally, if I had to choose, I would pick
thickness over length and I will tell you why. Only the first few inches
of a woman's vagina is extremely sensitive and so that is why many woman
can achieve orgasms better when men hit the walls instead of trying to get
their dick all the way up in her stomach. I like a man to slowly grind his
dick in me instead of pumping it into me like I am a gas tank. I also
prefer to ride a dick slowly instead of riding a dick like it is a pogo
stick. I do love it doggie style but not for the reasons one might
suspect. While it does allow the dick to go further inside of a woman, the
biggest benefit to having sex in the doggie style position is that it
allows the woman more freedom of movement. When we are pinned up
underneath a man with our ankles over our head, it is mighty hard to
participate. While you men are so-called "knocking the bottom
out", we are feeling like the losing contestant in a wrestling match.
It feels so much better to be able to guide some of the movement
ourselves.
As for oral sex, I agree that women should at least try sucking dick cause
the shit it the bomb :-) However, just like anal sex, if a woman is not
ready for it emotionally, the shit ain't happening. But, when she is
ready, let her do her own thing. Don't stand there and shove your dick in
and out her mouth; let her control the rhythm and the pace. Sometimes a
woman just wants to savor a dick and lick it all over instead of having it
pounded in and out of her mouth. So take heed to my words cause if you
persist on doing it your way, her ass may not be so willing next time. I
already discussed the swallowing issue so no need to go there except to
say if she doesn't want to, just like everything else, that is her
prerogative.
On to anal sex; not all women are gonna do it, pure and simple. That is
still considered a serious taboo and most women think it will hurt so bad,
they refuse to even try it. Then there are the contradictions. Men talk
trash about homosexuals fucking each other in the ass but then they want
to turn around and fuck their women in the ass. Confusing huh? You may be
able to solve the problem by doing what I said earlier, COMMUNICATING.
However, if a woman is willing to have anal sex, make sure you let her
guide your dick in and make sure you use a good lubricant and a condom.
Hell, use a condom period. But, don't try to systematically shove your
dick in her ass all at once. Remember that you are not the one on the
receiving end of that bad boy so let her control the motions. Some women
prefer to be flat on their stomach, some prefer to be in the doggie style
position and some prefer to lie on the side. But, after discussing anal
sex with some of my fellow sisters who are anal retentive like myself, the
consensus is that anal sex is most pleasurable with the woman's legs on
the man's shoulders, in the missionary position so to speak, because it
allows for more clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
I am gonna end this now but I will be writing much more on this some other
time, by saying that the worst mistake men make during love making is
wanting to receive more than they are willing to give. There are some men
who are still only concerned with their own pleasure and they are the
worst lovers on earth in my view. If I run into a man like that, who wants
me to do this and that to him and offers little or nothing in return, his
ass doesn't have to worry about seeing my ass again nor many of my fellow
sisters in pursuit of the ultimate sexual satisfaction. Men who want to
suck a woman's nipples for ten seconds and then expect her to suck his
dick till he cums are not high commodities in this world. Nor are
two-minute brothers but sometimes that can't be helped.
Although, for those men having trouble sustaining an erection, I do have a
suggestion. Baby Orajel and I am dead serious. The numbing effect allows
for decreased levels of sensitivity in the male, Thus allowing sustained
performance for those who are overly sensitive and easily
stimulated....There is also a very expensive root found in Chinese stores
called Yohimbe that is great for sustaining an erection.
Hmm, other than that all I can say is adventure and variety are the spice
of life. Drink some warm tea being eating a woman out and let it trickle
down to her ass. Use a Flintstone Push-Up Ice Cream bar and stick in her
vagina and then let her watch you lick her pussy off of it. Put some Ben
Wa balls in the freezer and then insert them in her and fuck her with them
inside her. Be experimental with ice, whipped cream, honey, all the usual
stuff. And, by all means, suck her toes and her ass; she will cum from the
mere thought of you. :-) As for other ideas, you will just have to wait
and read them in my stories. I don't want to give all my secrets away just
yet, dayum!
A final note to the brothers: "A WOMAN IS ONLY AS GOOD OR BAD IN BED
AS THE MAN WHO MOTIVATES HER!!!!!! SO, IF YOUR WOMAN IS JUST LYING THERE
LIKE A RAG DOLL, BUT YOU KNOW SHE REALLY HAS THE BOMB ASS PUSSY, ASK HER
WHAT IS WRONG. C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-E!!!!!!!"
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