To My Son at Eighteen

I was your age once
so they tell me
you know...with attitude and dreams...and hair

and now here you are
able to buy cigarettes
get drafted into military service
and rent X-rated movies 

so...like...what happened Man??????
where's that kid on my shoulders
asking a million questions
about clouds and frogs and snapping turtles?

When did you get so smart
that my great "Wisdom of the Universe"
turned into "Humorous Ideas from Dad"?
I must have been sleeping

So how does it feel to be legally an adult?
Can you feel the pressure of social demands?
Have you contemplated the increasing weight of the world?
Do you think about your role in the big picture?

Well...before it all gets too overwhelming
let good old Dad give you some advice

-remember to play everyday
-let people know the real you (they'll be impressed)
-share your ideas with the world (Lord knows they need a few)
-keep your promises, your true friends and your health
-seek the people, activities and things that excite you 
-forgive yourself and others when they really screw up!
-be kind to animals, deserving people, and aging parents

and enjoy your eighteenth year my wise and wonderful son
I know I will ('cuz I've enjoyed them all!!!)

Love, Dad

                            © Chuck Beals October 2, 2002