Even the simplest rhymes can touch someone who appreciates the extension of yourself to not send a pre-printed card, but to write something yourself, something of which they have shared in the experience. 
September 23, 1996   -   For Marge

How much sentiment would it take
For a thirty-ninth birthday card to make?
And how much sentiment would be authentic
From a brother to as sister whose lives are so distant?

I could compare you to a far off, plush oasis
Where seeing you is like receiving God�s graces
Or say that our relationship is a vast treasure
That cannot be gauged or adequately measured

Yet I search for words and colorful metaphors
To express some thoughts that seem like a blur
To describe what we have or what we have not
For the life we had had, or the love that we�ve got

We�re two branches on a tree, growing apart
With Mom the main connection, both within our hearts
When she is gone, as cuttings, we�ll be transplanted
And then, as now, we may take each other for granted

It�s our nature that has drawn us to these places
Where we seldom touch, or see each other�s faces
Yet I trust we are where we need to be, now
Working jobs, raising children, as best as we know how

Now I�ve written this verse in lieu of a birthday card
The writing wasn�t easy - hopefully the reading won�t be as hard
I chose not to send a �Hallmark� of �Pollyanna� wishes to convey
That for you, my sister Marge, to have the happiest of birthdays.
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February 17, 1996   -   For Cheryl

A �Hallmark� just wouldn�t do this time
To send birthday wishes to a cousin of mine
Who is bright and pretty - and one cool chick
Perceived by a cousin, now laying it on thick

She has a warm and expansive, caring heart;
Many are sad when she decides to depart
She travels to work and  always does a great job
With students and parents, the education wheel�s cog

Between us, as cousins, there is much space
Yet the love in our hearts is our saving grace
We�re infrequently together and more often apart
With always the potential to make a new start

Always the youngest, I am now a man
Emotionally strong and doing the best I can
I am here for you, Cheryl, with that you can know
Some relationships die, so knew ones can grow.
August, 2000      For Marian

Not much more belated can a birthday card be
Than this one sent from your old cousin, Chetty
Long ago, in times, I remember playing in your front yard
Gathering worms to scare your cousin, and my sister, Marge

And yet as we grew up, we also grew apart
Doing what we love and following our hearts
Going away to college, getting married and having kids
Coping with the stresses that make life what it is

Our families, for many years, lived very far away
Yet you kept close, by sending outgrown clothes our way
And the B.D. cards and Christmas visits kept the contact going
And I was always grateful of the love you were bestowing

In that same spirit of sending love in another shape
Comes this birthday poem, so corny, and so late
Yet I hope you feel the sentiment that this does convey
That you are loved and respected in a genuine kind of way
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