Trees adorned with holiday decorations, malls overflowing with eager shoppers, and kitchens filled with delicious aromas describe the Christmas holidays perfectly. Although these descriptions pertain to my idea of Christmas, Christmas means much more. Christmas is a reminder of the most important gift to mankind, Jesus Christ. My family recognizes this time as one of the most essential days of the year. My parents and I alternate each Christmas at my two grandparents� houses. Each year I visit one grandmother for dinner and the other grandmother for supper. Despite the fact that both families believe Christmas is an observance of Christ�s birth, we celebrate with varying activities.
More than one hundred presents decorate the area surrounding the six-foot tree adorning the dining room of my mother�s parent�s home (Nana and Papa Nick). Around 10:00 AM, the family gathers to open the numerous presents. Nana and Papa Nick usually wait and open their gifts last. In doing this they can share each of their gifts with everyone, as well as give thanks to each person individually. After opening the gifts, everyone give thanks to the givers as well as the ultimate Giver, God. Smiles are painted on everyone�s faces as we begin eating around 1:00 PM. Nana never fails to supply an ample amount of food for the family. Knowing that the some grandchildren prefer certain foods to others, she always pleases each one with their favorite foods and much more. Although our stomachs are filled to capacity when finishing the meal, we always find enough room for her famous �chocolate pie and cool whip.�
A small gold and white decorated tree greets the visitors in the foyer of my grandma�s, my father�s mother, home. This tree is surrounded by presents and the branches are lined with envelopes. At 12:00 promptly, we begin the traditional Christmas meal, first thanking God for his blessings upon His children. Although the menu contains almost half the items of my Nana�s, no one can complain. Again, everyone saves room for desert. Various items are presented, but everyone has to try a little of each delicacy. Grandma�s hospitality is of a queen. She never fails to eat her meal without running to the kitchen for sweet tea to fill each one�s glasses or another biscuit for the ham. After dinner the family gathers in the living room to open their presents and cards. The long-established gift of Grandma is a holiday card with money. In doing this she knows �everything will fit.� Each person again gives thanks for the many thoughts and gifts, acknowledging God as the source.
Even though our stomachs are beyond full after dinner, we always visit the opposite grandparents� house for supper. During this time we play games and share family memories. Tears of joy and laughter flow from our eyes remembering the �good old days.� Christmas is a time of fellowship between family and friends. Gifts are exchanged as a symbol of love, remembering the gifts given to Jesus as a baby. Though our hearts long for the laughter, food, and gifts, we must remember in all of the hustle and bustle the true meaning of Christmas�Jesus. |
