New Empathic Awareness through
Peaceful Resolutions
Peaceful Resolutions is about learning to find empathy within a situation of conflict. Conflicts can feel anywhere from mildly irritating to crazy-making. Many people are not even aware of how they really feel about what is going on. How, then, do we develop empathy when we are upset?

TALKING
In what we
SAY, how we say things, and how we come across to others.

LISTENING
What are we
HEARING in the other's words? Have we heard what he or she really means to say?

KNOWING YOURSELF
What are your
NEEDS in the situation?
What are your
VALUES?

COMMUNICATING STEP BY STEP
Do you feel confident that you can look at a conflict and know how to resolve it
STEP by STEP, even when you are mad at someone? Can you see a way where that no one loses at the end?
When you can, you will experience your
awareness in empathy. You'll experience respect for the other person and get respect in return. You will always want to have conflicts resolved with peace, to have
                   
Peaceful Resolutions!
  
     
            And everybody can learn this!
"In families and marriages,
in schools and at work, the way conflicts are resolved
is crucial for people's welbeing."

      
Cielja
See you in one of my trainings!
Links:
http://www.gordontraining.com
http://www.worldclassmarriage.com
http://www.sociocracy.biz
http://www.birthyear.net
http://www.magicmandala.com
Name: Cielja Kieft
[email protected]
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Emails:
Parent Effectiveness Training (PET)
Parenting can be challenging - even overwhelming at times. Being a parent doesn't mean you'll instinctively know what to do. PET, developed by Nobel Peace Prize nominee Dr. Thomas Gordon, offers proven communication skills for Parents. You will be amazed at the dramatic improvement in your family life.
NEXT PET STARTS APRIL 19, 2009 IN LAS VEGAS
World Class Marriage (WCM)
WCM brings couples the practical and proven skills they need to create a happy and successful long-term relationship. Life in a relationship is full of challenges. WCM empowers couples to face them succesfully together. Gordon Master Trainers Patty Howell and Ralph Jones developed WCM.
Children of the 21st Century
Children21C gives parents and caregivers insight in the phenomenon of The New Children, Indigo Children, and Crystal Children. The training offers chances to prepare for the education of the future. Developed by Cielja Kieft.
"When conflicts are resolved with win-win solutions, or prevented entirely through effective communication, people have more energy, they feel good about themselves and what they are doing. They experience increased appreciation, security, love and peace."
                           Cielja
Five Universal Energies
(Gordon certificate recommended prior to this class)
Five Universal Energies - fire, water, earth, air and space - are modes of expression we all use unconsciously. Imbalance in these energies blocks verbal communication and understanding of self and others. Learn how to use the five energy modes for greater harmony, creativity,  and productivity and to restore peace and enhance all relationships. Developed by Cielja Kieft and Emahmn.
Sociocratic Method
In households, schools and businesses decisions are made for the group, often by one person, which can cause varying degrees of resistance among group members. The Sociocratic Method enables all members of a group to support decision making, increases cooperation and feelings of acknowldgements. Developed by Dutch engineer Dr.Gerard Endenburg.
Cieljaz Prayer Box
Everybody needs to be prayed for now and then. Cieljaz Prayer Box is a beautiful wooden box with universal prayers and with healing and prosperity Mandalas made by Emahmn. Send in your prayers to email: [email protected].  Please write in positive statements. You also can ask me to word the prayers. Then let know when the prayers are heard. Thanks will be written underneath and de prayer will be deleted.
"My life, all my relationships, my love for my family, husband and sons, are essential inspirations and a continuous training in empathic awareness."
                                                                              Cielja
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