I like the basic stuff: movies, music, traveling, cooking, cuddling. I like all types of movies from action to drama. (Shocking I know for a gay man to like Drama). I am not a big fan or horror but will watch some suspense movies. Music is another great escape I use. I enjoy the 80's and Christmas the most. I listen to 80s/90s/Now station when I am in the car. I enjoy traveling alot. It is great to esxperience the different cultures. Nothing is more powerful than touching a piece of history that was created over 200 years ago. I have been fortunate to travel all over the world. I would really like to go to Greece and Russia before I die. My idea of a vacation is going on a cruise to the Eastern or Southern Caribbean. All the food you can eat, and plenty of things to do while on the ship until you get to your next port. There is something about moving across a body of water that is deeper than you can fathom. I enjoy cooking a lot. I have to say I am a pretty damn good cook. Hate the clean up but oh well.
As far as work goes I work for an Aviation company as an Account Manager.� It is a new experience being on this side of the industry.� I have worked in the hotel industry, commercial airline industry and travel agent side in the past.��
I have difficulty trusting guys and for good reason I guess.� It always happens that guys that I place trust in usually end up destroying that trust one way or another.��I tend to be a bit Pollyannaish when it comes to my outlook in life and love.� I try and have a positive out look on life but some days it is difficult for me to maintain and optimistic attitude.� Some days I say fuck the world and every one in it. LOL I believe that everything happens for a reason whether it is apparent at the moment or not.� I have had my share of struggles and disappointments but they all have had to happen for me to move on in life and appreciate life for what it is and NOT for what I want it to be.��I really am tired of the whole gay scene everyone is trying to fuck over everyone else literally.� I am at a point where I want to find someone in my life and have that constant companion.� I don't do one night stands because I feel more empty and lonely than I did before.�� I do hate the bar scene and I refuse to go to any of the local hangouts.� I have been to the Saloon once and that was not a good experience. I had a date there but due to my loathing of bars and the men I usually find in them I asked a friend to go along with me.� The guy I met was perfect for me in everyway, at least at first glance.� But then he turned out like all the others.� He drove me home we fooled around and he left never to be heard from again.� My friend, on my birthday, asked me if I was into this guy and I told him no.� He says, ?Well that is good, and I didn't want to tell you this if you were, but he came over to my house and slept with me. There are no decent men to be found in a bar.� If you think I can be proven wrong I am up for the challenge.� So needless to say my only means of interacting with the gay males is from my computer.� Some guys that I chat with want to meet me and that is all they can talk about.� But when it is time to meet they flake out. There is always some excuse why they can?t OR they don?t show up.� And they never call either.� I asked one guy why he does it and he says it is a game.� A GAME?� He enjoys fucking with other people?s emotions and time for his own amusement... WTF is that about� I don't have the time or the energy to deal with guys like you.� And what is the chub/chaser thing� It seems like the chubs are the ones that do all the chasing I want someone to chase me, want to spend time with me, want to get to know me for me before we hop in the sack.� It is absolutely ridiculous all the labels that are put out there that people attach themselves with for sake of identity.� In my mind people are just that people!� We make mistakes.� We feel happiness.� We feel sorrow.� We aren't robots or unfeeling machines that are put out there for the world to abuse.� I am tired of trying to get someone to like me for me.� I am adopting a new philosophy that if you don't like me for me then fuck you.� You are missing out on one great guy!!!�
Well this should give you a good idea of who I am.� If you take the chance you will like what you see.� If you don?t then no worries, just be upfront about it.
In closing my name is Rick and I am a hopeless romantic who enjoys having fun and wants to find someone out there who will appreciate my sense of humor, little quirks and my habits, both good and bad.� I am only human and my good points outweigh my bad points.� I have references if you would like their email address you can write them and find out what kind of freak I am or am not. � Thanks for reading and if you have made it this far I would enjoy chatting with you finding out how twisted you are to have gotten this far.�