Spanking Rituals: What they tell your bottom about you...
To a great extent, consensual spanking between adults is a highly ritualized activity. The spectacle of punishment is intended to act not only as a deterrent toward naughty behaviors, but to also illicit feelings of guilt which can serve to heighten the emotional spanking experience.
Below are just some of the ‘theatrics’- and the intended consequences of such rituals, that can be used to enhance a spanking experience. In many ways, your body language and attention to detail tells your bottom a lot about time what time over your lap will be like. This list is by no means all encompassing, nor does it necessarily imply any specific order.
- Being sent to your room – Refflection. Where contemplation of impending punishment is considered.
- Discussion prior to the administerinng of a spanking – Trust. Bonding period where feelings are shared and roles clearly (yet firmly) defined.
- Scolding (non-profane) – Inteegrity. Awareness of wrongdoing thru set parameters, and the critical mass stage of discussion.
- Being instructed to remove some or aall of your clothing – Resolution. Should flow freely from discussion / scolding stage.
- Being told to fetch a spanking impleement – Fear. Acceptance of punishment stage.
- Positioning – Sincerity. Attention to detail paying careful attention to fully exploit advantages and spanking comfort. Indicates a keen willingness to see a spanking thru to it’s entirety without interruption.
- Spanking on clothing or panties – Anticipation. Typically allows a longer session and often the ability to take a woman a bit past her limits.
- Lowering the panties or pulling themm up between the cheeks – Resolve. Warm-up is over—let’s get down to business.
- Gently pulling the hair or ears betwween flurries of spanking swats — Respect. Do I have your attention? I’m aware of your discomfort.
- Corner time – Humility/Aftergglow. Why not go and think about your behavior and why you made me do this, alone in the corner with your red behind on display.
- Tender consolation – Affectioon. I care enough about you to want you to achieve your stated goals and be the best you can possibly be.
