Perhaps, you are thinking of "Interview with a Brave Man", which branches off the discussion of enlightened benevolence?

If so, that point gets answered in this chapter, in that article. A discussion has been continuing at length, and "Irene" is asking "Tractatus" why he has felt the need to be rude to somebody who she feels is, at worse, guilty of arguing a silly point.

Or, if you haven't read the beginning of that thread of discussion, yet, and are wondering what that is about, you could follow this link and get the relevant background.

Or, maybe you just want to return to the previous discussion.