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"OK, anything else off limits?"
In general, like I've indicated elsewhere, it is my intention to
create a supportive environment where people may feel free
to be themselves. As I've said, friends will offer their concerned
advice to friends, and should. But we have to know when that advice
has passed over the line and become an inadequately justified
hectoring, and the pain our nagging is causing is a greater loss
for the person than would be the thing we seek to prevent. We
have to respect the fact that the other person has her own likes
and dislikes, and that these may not be our own.
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