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From: Chris [email protected]
Date: 12 Apr 2001
Time: 19:19:35
Remote Name: 216.168.100.131
which method is more effective. more caring. why
Both methods can be effective as they are dealing with different types of healing so both will need different styles of caring. Both types need much caring and much love. If there is no caring or love neither friend can get much from the relationship. Friends help friends and care for each other. And they can tell when you care enough to take time to listen to them or help them through some type of difficuly. A real friend will come and listen more than any thing. Sometimes listening can be very helpful. Of course it is up to the individual to take control of the situation when he becomes aware of where he is in it and can see a way through to the future. I can not make the changes but it is up to him, only he can do that. I can help him see that he does have a problem and that it is up to him to change or to make a move.