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The proportion of divorces initiated by women climbed to more than 70% Tragically, however, government policies intended to deal with the
“fatherhood crisis” have been ineffective at best because
the root cause is not child abandonment by fathers, but policies that
give mothers an incentive to initiate marital separation and divorce.
http://www.independent.org/publications/the_lighthouse/detail.asp?id=7 Other studies have reached similar conclusions. The proportion of
divorces initiated by women climbed to more than 70 percent when no-fault
divorce was introduced, according to Margaret Brinig of the University
of Iowa and Douglas Allen of Simon Fraser University. Mothers “are
more likely to instigate separation, despite a deep attachment to
their children and the evidence that many divorces harm children.”
And the “bottom line” is indeed the children. After analyzing
21 different variables, Brinig and Allen concluded that “who
gets the children is by far the most important component in deciding
who files for divorce.” Author Robert Seidenberg goes further,
reporting that “all the domestic relations lawyers I spoke with
concurred that in disputes involving child custody, women initiate
divorce almost all the time.”
The most serious effect of forcibly removing fathers after quasi-criminal
accusations is the abuse of children it induces. Contrary to popular
belief, it is not fathers, but mothers—especially single mothers—who
are most likely to abuse children. An HHS study found that women ages
twenty to forty-nine are almost twice as likely as men to be perpetrators
of child maltreatment: “It is estimated that . . . almost twothirds
[of child abusers] were females” (HHS 1998a, xi–xii) Statistics tell us that women instigate more than 75% of today's
divorces. This flight of women from marriage has prompted books such
as Maggie Gallagher's The Abolition of Marriage: How We Destroy Lasting
Love. Gallagher calls for a return to fault divorces as a "cure"
for divorce. She feels the individual's right to choice and self-gratification
has brought an "institution" to the brink of extinction.
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