"If you allow them [women] to pull away restraints and put themselves on an equality with their husbands, do you imagine that you will be able to tolerate them? From the moment that they become your fellows, they will become your masters." --Marcus Porcius Cato (the Elder, a.k.a. the Censor), 234-149 BCE
Which is exactly what this IWF "discussion" is about. The quoted message from a concerned man is very well reasoned and moderately stated, yet is dismissed out of hand, with hardly veiled contempt, by the female "moderator." Why? Because she can. Because he asked, and in so doing ceded the authority to her from the beginning -- and she couldn't resist the temptation to use the power he handed her, all the more because she couldn't respond to his points on the reasoned level he presented them. This is known as "changing the subject," and has been a primary female tactic from time immemorial. Women instinctively regard such a man with contempt, even if he is their own creation -- in fact, precisely because he is their own creation: how can the Creator regard her creature as her "equal"? Boys -- "Is it okay for me to be me, mommy?" -- are not "equal" to women. Just as women are not "equal" to men.
Get this: There can be no question of "equality" between the sexes. There can be parity, a balance of power based on recognized, differentiated gender roles -- most of which are natural and innate -- and territories of authority, so that each sex has something to exchange with the other, and thus both have reason to cooperate.
Only when boys separate from Mother and grow into men do men have such a territory from which to address women, and do women respect them as men. And of course women instinctively try to prevent their boys growing up and away, out of their sphere of power. Who likes to lose a possession, a toy? And neither is this bad for men, for manhood "won" without effort is not manhood. Which is why women cannot make boys into men, because they are instinctively uncomfortable with competition and conflict -- which might result in someone's feelings being hurt. We cannot look to women -- even "intelligent" women like IWF or "iFeminists" -- to show us the way out. For all their talk, they simply don't know. The sexes are different. If they were not, there'd be only one of us here.
