Fallen Angel

Feminism's affect on Women.

Once more my hat is off to you. You were right, again. Although, like most of my species, I will never fathom comprehension of the female mind - I have seen the dynamics that perpetuate the Feminazi Movement. They are Petulance and Envy.
One of my friends is married with 4 (yes, four !) children - 3 girls, 1 boy. The oldest girl will turn 16 soon, and the boy will be 15 next birthday. The phrase 'Chalk and Cheese' is one that springs instantly to mind. The girl is outgoing, gregarious, outwardly confident, doing well at school and socially adept. The boy is morose, withdrawn, not doing well academically, exhibiting all of the classic attention-seeking/alienated behaviour patterns and rumour tells me he is bullying younger children at school.
I look around the household and wonder why the siblings should be so markedly different. The answer is of course, gender. The mechanism of this disparity is the one who loves them most - their mother.
Visiting one evening, the girl was discussing her exam options and, spurred on by her mother (“Don't get married too early, darlin' !”), her plans for the future; her career, her house, her husband, her children - IN THAT ORDER !!! There seemed to be an almost maniacal glee in the mother as the girl outlined the next 20 years of her life, almost like a train timetable. It later dawned on me that the mother had been married in the mid-80's, and had chosen the wife/mother option owing to her lack of academic achievement and poor employment prospects locally. No surprise then that after 20 years of Feminazi “you can have it all - all you have to do is go out and get it !” propaganda/brainwasing, punted out to her generation and beyond, that the mother is more than a little resentful of her current situation.
According to this mother, her husband is to blame for holding her back !! The Feminazi propaganda/brainwashing machine told her so !!!! I wonder if that was what she considered as she trotted down the aisle to her future 'hinderance' (?)
It became all too clear to me that, like many generations of men previously living out their thwarted sporting fantasies through their sons, that this mother was attempting to live out her “alternate life-fantasies” through her daughter.
And, what of the future ? For the boy; probably a life touched by delinquency, unless something happens fairly quickly to steer him away from that path. For the girl, following the current pattern, early success to further fuel her sense of entitlement; intelligent, outgoing, assertive, attractive twenty-something females (as if there's a shortage of them !) have the world at their feet. Her easy tendency to lift her hands/fists, to anything male she takes umbrage with, bodes ill for boyfriends/spouses and any future children when “The Reality Crash” comes.
As she joins the 'Bridget Jones Club' in her late twenties/early thirties, and her biological clock deafens the neighbourhood, her perfect man will still be what he always is….a Feminazi illusion. So far, everything has fallen into her lap as the Feminazi handbook predicted. The career is established and the house being paid for. Life is looking pretty good for the modern girl, she's got it all !
The Bridget Jones Future.
Then one morning, she realises that the looks are fading, the next generation of 'bright, young-things' are snapping at her heels and the 'romantic opportunities' she cast aside in favour of her career are not sitting around, with their thumbs in a certain orifice and their brains in neutral, waiting for her to change her mind ! Perhaps, the hard reality of the situation will impact quickly and she will understand that human relationships are worked hard for, and earned - not a god-given right. The likelihood is that the 20 to 30-odd years of Feminazi brainwashing will remain intact. It will never be her fault !!!
“Where are all the good men ?” she will whine, as she stamps her little footie. As time passes, her search for Mr Perfect - that wonderful physically perfect, caring and loving, intelligent and wealthy specimen of manhood that will keep her and her children in the style she would like to become accustomed to - will transform into the desperate search for Mr Breathing-In-And-Out. Those 'recreational' sexual encounters, that she was in control of in her twenties, will become the out-of-control nightmares of her thirties, and beyond - each rejection tearing deeper and deeper into her inflated self-esteem and generating greater and greater resentment towards men 'who only wanted her for one thing !'
Thus, her resentments are likely to create a self-fulfilling prophecy for her future relationships. It goes like this: If men are only out to use me, then I will be suspicious of men until one of them proves to me otherwise. The men, at the prospect of being treated like criminals by this woman for simply existing, will either shy away from, or drop out of the relationship fairly quickly. Thus, further reinforcing her resentments - and the vicious circle gets tighter and tighter.
The so-called, and much touted, historical 'oppression' of women by men will be brought into sharper focus and her perceived sense of 'victimhood' further stimulated. Once again the Feminazi propaganda/brainwashing machine will pander to her now well established misandric prejudice; absolving her of responsibility for her situation - blame the guys why don't you ? She may even find herself a Feminazi therapist to help her deal with her depression; again reinforcing her resentments, pandering to her prejudices with constant ego-boosts - telling her that she has low self-esteem and that 'all feelings (and, therefore, all behaviours) are valid' and that she is entitled to feel the way that she does !! This also justifies her previous, and now future, behaviour of doing whatever she wanted with scant regard for the feelings of others.
All too soon the window of reproductive opportunity closes, leaving a bitter lonely, resentful, man-hating woman to face a childless - and hence biological family-less future. She may meet a man seeking only companionship, however, her resentments and self-inflicted disappointments combined with her energies diverting into her career are likely to put paid to this fairly swiftly.
She may meet a man who already has children. She is, however, unlikely to relish the role of unpaid babysitter (to interfere with her career) - and further add to her other resentments - the fact she has no children of her own. It probably won't last long !
In the end she discovers that she cannot cheat 'Mother Nature'.
The Single-Mother Future
Alternatively, she may meet her 'wayward, bad-boy, gorgeous hunk' in her twenties and commit that most ridiculous of female errors, that she can “....change him through marriage !”. They'll make a fairy-tale couple, and the marriage will be exactly how it began….a totally unrealistic fairy tale. When reality finally bites, many years later, and she admits to herself that the handsome, immature, philandering jerk she married is still an immature, philandering, jerk - and she hotfoots it to the divorce court - the damage is already done.
She now faces a future with her children growing up without a father - and all the emotional, social and physical safety risks associated with that. The courts will give her custody of the children and the family home - after all the wastrel husband didn't pay for it ! As for the maintenance payments ordered by the courts, well, if he'd had a job he'd be able to pay ! Her looks will be starting to fade, and she won't be getting any younger ! She will be carrying a lorry-load of emotional baggage to dump onto either her offspring and/or potential boyfriend/spouse. Her career, which she put on hold, or curtailed, for the children, has stagnated; people will have been promoted over her - and the prospects don't look good (!) Her standard of living will probably fall further, owing to increased costs as the children grow, and her stress levels will multiply manifold as she becomes not only primary carer for her children, but also sole breadwinner.
Once again the Feminazi propaganda/brainwashing machine will spring into life to support her. Her husband was a jerk, but, no matter, all men are jerks - you and the children are better off without him ! The Feminazi support groups and therapists will give her the 'all feelings are valid' nonsense (you know the rest !) and her lack of career success is down to the “Glass Ceiling” - she is being discriminated against by the patriarchal system that oppresses women like her (hallelujah, sisters !) Once again, it's not her fault !
She now makes the decision that her children need a real father, and the ordinary blokes that slaved through their twenties to build a career structure and financial stability, although not as attractive as her ex-husband (!), suddenly become targets for her attention. She is then completely gobsmacked, and deeply wounded, when these men want absolutely nothing to do with her, except perhaps for some 'recreational' sexual adventure - after all, why should they slave their guts out to be the dumping ground for her emotional baggage and a piggy-bank for her surly, snot-nosed brats ? Faced with rejection - really, for the first time in her life - her resentments against men begin to grow and fester, the relationship expectations become self-fulfilling prophecies - once again, you know the rest.
The Feminazis are again on hand to support and absolve her of responsibility for her shitty life, and help her to pass her misandric prejudices onto her daughters, and also alienate her sons from society. The damaged adult produces damaged children, who grow into damaged adults, to produce damaged children. Then again, it wasn't her fault, after all she was cheated of her 'well deserved' future by the patriarchal conspiracy, and her wastrel husband - conveniently forgetting that no-one forced her to marry him ! In the end she ends up with the worst of both worlds, and some very damaged children !!
J