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I have no idea what women want, but I know I can't give it to them.
Does that make any sense at all? If it doesn't, let me help you along. Different women want certain things in their men(and certain things they don't want). Some want looks, some want intelligence, some want money, some want a good lover. And yet, some want a combination of all of these. Yadda, yadda, yadda!
The problem you see is that I'm lacking a bit in every category. I'm not the handsomest, the smartest, the wealthiest, or the sexiest. Hell, in some categories, I lack alot. It is therefore that I come to the conclusion that I cannot give a woman what she is looking for.
I know some of you may think I have a self-esteem problem. Well, don't think about it because it's true. And the only way that I survive with a piece of it intact is that I write off every gal that has turned me down along the way. I ask them out, ask them for a kiss, ask them for love; and if they say no, I will never ask them for any of these again.
It doesn't matter what their reason may be. I don't think I'm going to change the way I am, so if a gal turns me down at point A in my life, what is going to change about me when I reach point B? I'm still going to be the same person that I was back then.
I'm tired of trying to be what women want us to be. We are who we are. We aren't projects to be fixed, or worked-on. We come the way we are, and all the pomp and circumstance we go through to meet someone is a complete farce, because as soon as we become comfortable with that person, we throw pomp and circumstance out the window, and we start dressing in the rags we loved when we were single, and behaving the way we enjoyed when we were single.
You ask me why a great number of marriages fail: Because if the two pieces of the couple aren't true to themselves and their wants, how can they be truthful to the other person about what they want?
Be honest! There are enough places where we run into bullshit, we shouldn't have to step in great piles of it when dealing with our friends, our families, and our loved ones.
Be honest, and someone may thank you for it
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