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My name is Chris Granholm, and I'm a recovering sexaholic.
Being a guy, I could just say that I'm a recovering guy. However, no matter what I am, I'm getting over the fact that sex should be a part of the normal interactions between man and woman.
You could attribute it to the sole fact that I was raised by a woman, but even my own mother thinks that normal man-woman relationships include sex. So, you can attribute it to whatever you want. You can even attribute it to the plain and simple fact that sex for me did not come until three months after my 19th birthday.
However, no matter why I think that sex should not spoil a good time, it does not deter from the fact that I'm correct. Even if you can satisfy a woman sexually doesn't mean that you are a pleasure to be with socially; and vice-versa. Call it my upbringing, but I'd rather have dozens of women laugh in my arms at something witty I have just said, than one be breathless in my arms at the end of the night.
Or maybe I am wrong.
Maybe I've gone so long without sex that I don't see a thing wrong with not having it. Perhaps I've misjudged the way relationships between men and women should happen. Maybe I've just lost sight of the fact that without sex, a good relationship is impossible to have.
Or maybe I was right from the beginning.
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