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If I have nothing more with women from now on but platonic relationships, I'll be one happy guy.
Today, I had one great day with a female friend of mine, her dog, and myself. I know, it sounds like the premise for a network sitcom involving gay characters, but this is my life. And it was a fabulous day.
I mean, what would you guys think? I spent the day with a gorgeous woman, had menudo, a blizzard, and listened to good music. What more could someone ask for?
And not once did I have a thought of sex, can you believe that? And if there's anything that can ruin a good day(or night), it's the thought of sex.
And I'm pretty certain right now that if I found a girlfriend, who I would have sex with on a regular basis, I wouldn't have as much fun as I do now with my friend.
On a heavier note, I have a rhetorical question to ask.
How quick would you be to take back a long-time friend of yours if she stopped talking to you in a fit of childishness over something petty?
I've been posing this question to myself since last night. And today, I was faced with the conundrum head on. Don't get me wrong, I've known this person for a decade, and she even tried to sweeten the deal with some concert tickets; but I stopped and took a step back. As a friend told me last night, if she was so quick to drop me like a bad habit over something petty, what's to stop him from doing it again?
In the end, I know I'll make the right decision(perhaps the decision I've made already). After all, sometimes the right decisions are the easiest to make.
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