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So, I think yesterday I got the last ultimatum from this woman. She's adamant about her position, and "just wants me to accept it". And she's being awfully nice about it, and that's what is irking me today.
Yours truly is no stranger to rejection. If I had a C-note for every girl that turned me down, well, I'd be out of debt at the very least. But I'm not used to nice rejection. I'm used to the rejection that is usually followed by a restraining order. I'm used to "Get out of my face," or "I so wouldn't do you."
All that aside, she told me that she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. It's been her experience that after sex, she doesn't know where to go with the relationship, and therefore we would be better of just remaining friends.
Wow, you know, I just wonder how it is I find all the girls who've already dated a friend, and know just where that road leads. I myself think that I've done and seen quite a bit, and I've never dated a friend. But thank God that I come across all these girls with that same experience.
My friend once asked me why I write girls off. And I gave her my usual explanation of that it helps me get over the heartache, and not think about the woman anymore. And the real truth of the matter is that I get written off all the time. Whenever a gal lumps me in with a person or an experience she's had in the past, it's a convenient excuse and she ends up writing me off.
Yes, you've written me off.
Guys, when women say they're looking for a nice guy, don't fucking believe them. They're looking for a combination of traits that includes looks, personality, and social status; regardless of nice or mean.
It's so hard to still believe in love when no one will take an inkling of the cornucopia you have.
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