I have exhaled and now what.  In this day and age if you wait for the so-called right one to come along so you can exhale, you’ll die holding your breath.  Girlfriend now is the time to live, to breathe freely.  It doesn’t matter if your married, single, dating, or whatever.  You should always exhale.  Always breathing.  Never buy into that “you have to have a man to be complete”crap.  A man is a complement, not something that makes you whole.  If you didn’t feel whole before he came, you certainly aren’t going to feel whole when he gets there.  It is your job to love yourself, respect yourself, free yourself, and be yourself.  If you don’t do this for yourself how do you expect for someone else to be able to do the same. 

     So many of us single sisters out here keep wondering why haven’t we found a man yet.  Have you ever thought that you may not be ready?  Could it be that probably there is something your spirit and soul senses you need to complete first? There’s a lesson somewhere you have to learn, or something you have to finish or achieve first this is done in order to prepare you for the right one.  A man and a relationship is a major responsibility.  You can’t just expect it to work on itself. Take a look at your relationships   what made them good, and what made them bad?  I know this maybe hard but look at what part you played in the breakup in the relationship.  A man cannot take all the blame when a relationship ends, sometimes it may be more of what you did than he. 

     Make the most of it.  Remember good things come to those who wait.  Be careful what you wish for you just may get it.  If you keep asking for a man, you’ll get just that a man, but not the one for you.  Be specific in what you want. 

     Ladies enjoy being single.