July 23, 1994
We got married at Ascension Lutheran Church in Wilson, North Carolina, had our reception at Willow Springs Country Club, and spent our honeymoon at the Sanderling Inn in Duck, North Carolina.
Leaving the church
"My soul gave me good counsel,
Teaching me to love.
Love was for me a delicate thread
Stretched between two adjacent pegs
But now it has been transformed into a halo
Its first is its last
And its last is its first.
It encompasses every being
Slowly expanding to embrace
All that ever will be."
--Jalil al-Din Rumi
Cutting the cake...Art's mom made it, my mom made the dress.  :)
"So, do you think they're jealous of us?"
Dancing with my man...
"Can we shag to this 90s rock music?"
"This is the chaste kiss of our union:
for one miraculous moment
all nature is our congregation and our choir.
We have the ear and eye of heaven.
The One smiles in our hearts.

No moment could be more sacred in our lives
We rejoice that we are thought worthy to be
Actors in the peaceful drama of blissful souls.
We have the hope and courage of heaven.
The One smiles in our hearts."
--Manon Williams
The good-looking parents of the bride...  :)
"Life has taught me that love does not consist of gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction."
--Antoine de Saint-Exupery

"I am the silk page at your fingertips
running down on me, the fruit you revolve and leave mapped in bloom, the blur of a lens you lift a shirt hem to, rub over, breathe on, I am the way you see the world anew."
--Mimii Khalvati
"I told you we should have gotten bubbles instead..."
This is what happens when you allow your ten-year-old brother-in-law to handle birdseed...
Tea and scones...don't I feel English right now...
"What is it to work with love?
It is to weave the cloth with threads drawn from your heart, even as if your beloved were to wear that cloth.
It is to build a house with affection, even as if your beloved were to dwell in that house.
It is to sow seeds with tenderness and reap the harvest with joy, even as if your beloved were to eat the fruit."
--Kahlil Gibran
Tea time at the Sanderling...
"Hey, baby...have I told you lately that I'm glad I married you?"
"For one human being to love another:  that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparations." 
--Rainer Marie Rilke

"...and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart)...
--e.e. cummings
On top of the Hatteras lighthouse.
"But do you choose, or does love choose you?
Our common speech, that utters mysteries
Only half known, insists that we fall in love
Who voyages on those seas
Goes to the ends of the world, a lifetime's journey
Yet vows are chosen, and acts that make them good
Chosen, for better, for worse, or hard or easy.

I search for words to bless you, find none right
But see that you from stores of joy already
Are blessing others, while your joys increase.
Blest be your chosen lot, dear son and daughter,
And the journey you began before you willed it--
Falling in love--upon those passionate seas."
--Anne Ridler


I don't think Sir Walter Raleigh had this much fun here, do you?
At the Elizabethan Gardens.
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