| Lessons Learned 1. Get personal issues cleared up BEFORE you date. 2. Don't just think nice thoughts about your relationship. PRAY a whole lot about it and for it and for the one you're in the relationship with. 3. Ask good questions. Be continually learning more about the person you're with. If you think you know them well enough you don't ask questions anymore,there's a good chance you're wrong. There's always more to know about someone you love. Don't miss the chance to grow deeper. Keep thinking and asking good questions and you'll always have something good to talk about. |
| 4. Think of others more highly than yourself. Even when you think you've been wronged. Especially when you think you've been wronged. 5. If you feel angry at the other person, pinpoint exactly what it is that's bothering you and ask yourself why it's bothering you. Then if the other person caused the problem, cool off some and ask the other person about it later. Usually they didn't mean to hurt you. 6. Don't let go of the people you care about. Continue to be a friend even when it's hard, and it will be worth it. 7. Trust God and give him control. |
| I wish someone had told me all ths stuff before I started dating. It would have helped a lot. I hope you use what I learned. You'll be much better off if you do. |