There was a little
boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of
nails and told him
that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a nail
in the back fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.
Then it gradually
dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his
temper than to drive
those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when
the boy didn't lose
his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father
suggested that the
boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able
to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to
tell his father
that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand
and led him to the
fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at
the holes in the
fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say
things in anger,
they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a
knife in a man and
draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say
I'm sorry, the wound
is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a
physical one.
Friends are a very
rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and
encourage you to
succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise,
and they always
want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how
much you care.