A note from the couple:
We understand that the vast majority of those we have invited understand proper wedding etiquette better than we do, and appreciate very much their comments, ideas, and suggestions relating to these suggested guidelines.  We understand that different people have different views on these issues, particularly on how to dress at a wedding.  We urge those with greater understanding than ourselves, to simply dress as they consider appropriate.  This page is written mainly as a benefit to those few individuals who have not attended many weddings and would like some general advice for how to dress and act.

Following the appropriate social etiquette at a wedding a is very important for three main reasons:

1. It is a sign for respect and love towards those involved in the marriage
2. Following the proper etiquette is an important part of your participation in the wedding, and your support of the couple
3. Following the proper etiquette helps the wedding proceeds according to plans

• No talking
• No eating, drinking, chewing gum (except with prior aproval for a medical reason)
• No coloring, doodling, drawing, crossword puzzles, etc. (this holds for children also)
• Cell phones must be off
  
• Follow all the direction of the ushers
  

• Shoes (dress shoes or loafers) are required.  No flip-flops or sandles; preferably not tennis shoes or sneakers
  
• Long pants should be worn (no jeans)
• A long-sleeve shirt should be worn (ideally, a dress shirt, polo shirt, sweater, or a sportsjacket)
• No hats or headcoverings should be worn
  
• Socks required

• Dress or skirt should reach down below the knees (ideally should reach the ankles)
• Dress or top should include sleeves (ideally should extent past elbows)
  
• Must have shoes or sandles
• Encouraged to cover head and shoulders appropriately