| 2006 was truly
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| Charles was as usual busy particularly with
University work as he was involved in a pioneering project to build and
set up a new computer lab to support Employability Skills. Much of whatever free time he had was also taken up by urgent work at Imperial Institute as one was busy with having a new BSc in Computing validated by the University of Wales. And other involvements were there too ... |
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In a meanngful and
rational move the annual Shell LiveWIRE awards ceremony was integrated
within the Sri Lankan Entrepreneur of the Year awards ceremony
organised by the Federation of Chambers of Commerce and Industry of Sri
Lanka. |
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| Things changed on 31st January. Not feeling
well, Charles requested to be taken to Kalubowila (Colombo South)
Teaching Hospital to be checked up by Prof Jayaratna of our
university's medical faculty. Within 2 hours he was told that he had
suffered a silent heart attack and further diagnosis, tests and
treatment began. By the 4th day he had suffered one more that was even
more serious and Rukmal had been requested to take him quickly to a
cardiac intensive care unit. Charles finally spent 6 weeks in three
different hospitals (the first 'State' and the latter two 'private')
and
was able to come home after a 5-graft by-pass surgery. |
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On the left, the main entrance to
Colombo South Hospital. On the right, the ward where Charles was with
'A' indicating the bed he was in and 'B' the bed closer to the table of
the doctors to which he was shifted when a worsening of the situation
was diagnosed. In the inset, a photo taken when Charles returned to the
ward about 4 months after the events to thank the doctors and the staff
... seen with Prof Jayaratne and a ward sister.
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By-pass
surgery is common but what was critical was what happened before. It
has been pointed out that with the second attack Charles could simply
have disappeared if not for the fact that he was actually in hospital
at that moment. Charles is firmly convinced that if he survived ... and
survived in a manner to be able to play a productive and useful life
very much as earlier ... it is because of three blessings :
1 - the family (with Rukmal playing the coordinating role and Nilmini and Felicia being totally caring and supportive ... Charles' mother, given her age, being given the impression Charles was having a problem with one of the legs ... even Charles' father, who died in 2001, but who from another life would have been watching over...) and the extended family 2 - in spite of his own weaknesses and faults, whatever good he may have done in life brought its blessings 3 - the solidarity of over a thousand people ... relatives, friends, colleagues, students, past students ...who were with Charles thinking of him, praying for him in the different religions, even helping him where possible financially. (It is noted that with the activity being coordinated by the members of the Catholic Students' Association and the Buddhist Monks of the Buddhist Society, both of the university, the students were offering themselves and rushing to donate the blood that was required and more.) |
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On the right: Naveen, a former student of Charles and now working in the UK was visiting Sri Lanka and they arranged to meet near the beach where Rukmal was taking Charles for a walk and where Naveen was taking his parents for the same purpose. |
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In spite of
objections from the family, Charles was keen on getting back to work to
complete what he had begun at the Careers Centre. Finally the surgeon
approved it on the understanding that it would be gradual.It started with an alumni day-out to which Charles was invited. Charles is seen registering himself at the entrance with the Head of Department too standing closeby. He was even invited to take part in a traditional game blindfolded! |
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| Even
though Charles had been expected to work in relaxed manner. He soon
realised that it was becoming too much. Even though for his part-time
involvement at Imperial Institute, he had been told "Do what you can,
when you can and at your own pace", Charles finally decided to resign
from Imperial to be able to devote more time to work at the University. |
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A memento offered by the staff (Management & Executive) of Imperial Institute. |
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The CEO Rohan Wijeratne presents the plaque to Charles as well as an autographed group photo of the staff as souvenir. |
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| The fact
that Charles and the family had been taking care of Charles' parents
since 1987 ... while they did it most willingly ... imposed constraints
particularly during the last 10 years or so when they became very
feeble. It was impossible to leave them and so the opportunities
for the family get out all together for more than a few hours became
impossible. The father had died in 2001 but the mother was there.But as
Charles was really tired the family managed to get two people to stay
with the mother and managed a 2-day holiday in the mountains in Nov
2006. |
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A relatively cheap guest house with a bedroom that had two large beds and could take 6 persons was identifed. It was in Watawala, the region that generally records the highest rainfall in the country. A niece from Felicia's side and a nephew from Charles' side too were invited to join. |
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| The first day was spent in relaxed manner driving around & visting a few places for the nephew and the niece to get to know them. | ||||||
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In the Talawakelle area ... with Devon Falls and St Clair's Falls in the background. |
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| Christmas
approaches ... A week before Christmas .. as we have done now for more than 20 years, the family gets together to prepare the traditional fruit cake which becomes part of the plate of sweetmeats presented to non-christian neighbours and friends. (They do similarly 'in return' at the Sinhala and Tamil New Year in April!) |
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to right and top to bottom: Getting the flour ready ... Nilmini cutting & chopping the dried fruits ....Felicia doing similarly ... The ingrediants are ready. Charles is busy preparing the egg whites. And the mixing in a huge plastic can begins. Mixing goes on ... Charles takes over the final stages ... The cake is back from the bakery in trays. Cutting pieces and wrapping begins. |
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| Early on
Christmas morning ... Charles and Felicia begin making 'Belgian'
Waffles ... also for the plates to go out. |
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| As
Charles' mother was constrained either to the bed or to a wheel chair,
Charles' brother and the families of the two cousin sisters (who grew up with Charles as 'sisters'
as their mother had died when
they were still in their infancy) came to Charles' place for a
meal on Christmas day night. Asha, Rukmal's friend, and her parents
joined in too. |
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| Yes, it had finally been a difficult and trying year for Charles and the family ... but they had without doubt experienced that they were not alone at a moment of serious crisis ... that there were so many joined with them in brotherhood and love ... and through all that they also experienced tremendous blessings. | ||||||