2006 was truly eventful ...

Charles was as usual busy particularly with University work as he was involved in a pioneering project to build and set up a new computer lab to support Employability Skills.

Much of whatever free time he had was also taken up by urgent work at Imperial Institute as one was busy with having a new BSc in Computing validated by the University of Wales.

And other involvements were there too ...

livewire
In a meanngful and rational move the annual Shell LiveWIRE awards ceremony was integrated within the Sri Lankan Entrepreneur of the Year awards ceremony organised by the Federation of Chambers of Commerce and Industry of Sri Lanka.

Above:
Charles presents a merit certificate to a winner.

Opposite:
The winners with some of the judges and officials.
livewire

Things changed on 31st January. Not feeling well, Charles requested to be taken to Kalubowila (Colombo South) Teaching Hospital to be checked up by Prof Jayaratna of our university's medical faculty. Within 2 hours he was told that he had suffered a silent heart attack and further diagnosis, tests and treatment began. By the 4th day he had suffered one more that was even more serious and Rukmal had been requested to take him quickly to a cardiac intensive care unit. Charles finally spent 6 weeks in three different hospitals (the first 'State' and the latter two 'private') and was able to come home after a 5-graft by-pass surgery.

kalubowila

kalubowila
On the left, the main entrance to Colombo South Hospital. On the right, the ward where Charles was with 'A' indicating the bed he was in and 'B' the bed closer to the table of the doctors to which he was shifted when a worsening of the situation was diagnosed. In the inset, a photo taken when Charles returned to the ward about 4 months after the events to thank the doctors and the staff ... seen with Prof Jayaratne and a ward sister.

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Opposite: With Nilmini standing by, Charles at the end of the 2-week stabilization at the Apollo Hospital in Colombo and just prior to the angiogram. Insert: Photo showing Dr Tripti Deb, Cardiologist who took care of Charles (and continues to follow him up even now) and ward sister, taken when Charles went months after the crisis to thank them.

durdansAfter the angiogram Charles was told that the situation was critical with 3 major heart vessels and 2 minor ones blocked and that immediate surgery was required. Even though that would have been very much cheaper, one option - doing it at the state hospital in Colombo was ruled out because normally one would have to be on the waiting list for several months. On the advice of several friends the decision was made to have the surgery at Durdans rather than at Apollo even though the latter too would have been a very good option. Rukmal had three meetings with Dr Kesava Dev, Cardio-Thoracic Surgeon at Durdans (seen in the insert in photo taken 4 months after surgery) and Charles was accepted for surgery there. Recovery was a little long with Charles being kept in hospital for double the typical duration ... but finally Charles was brought home on 10th March 2006 to continue the recovery, treatment and physiotherapy etc at home.
By-pass surgery is common but what was critical was what happened before. It has been pointed out that with the second attack Charles could simply have disappeared if not for the fact that he was actually in hospital at that moment. Charles is firmly convinced that if he survived ... and survived in a manner to be able to play a productive and useful life very much as earlier ... it is because of three blessings :

1 - the family (with Rukmal playing the coordinating role and Nilmini and Felicia being totally caring and supportive ... Charles' mother, given her age, being given the impression Charles was having a problem with one of the legs ... even Charles' father, who died in 2001, but who from another life would have been watching over...) and the extended family
2 - in spite of his own weaknesses and faults, whatever good he may have done in life brought its blessings
3 - the solidarity of over a thousand people ... relatives, friends, colleagues, students, past students ...who were with Charles thinking of him, praying for him in the different religions, even helping him where possible financially. (It is noted that with the activity being coordinated by the members of the Catholic Students' Association and the Buddhist Monks of the Buddhist Society, both of the university, the students were offering themselves and rushing to donate the blood that was required and more.)
 

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naveen
There was a regular flow of visitors to Charles' home during the recovery. On the left one taken when the Dean of the Faculty (seen to the right of Charles and just behind) and some staff members came over.
On the right:
Naveen, a former student of Charles and now working in the UK was visiting Sri Lanka and they arranged to meet near the beach where Rukmal was taking Charles for a walk and where Naveen was taking his parents for the same purpose.

alumniIn spite of objections from the family, Charles was keen on getting back to work to complete what he had begun at the Careers Centre. Finally the surgeon approved it on the understanding that it would be gradual.

It started with an alumni day-out to which Charles was invited. Charles is seen registering himself at the entrance with the Head of Department too standing closeby. He was even invited to take part in a traditional game blindfolded!

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Taking part in a panel discussion  in June ... serving as a special resource person on English for Employment.

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While working at IFS, Rukmal continued to be a part time lecturer at IIT. A photo taken at the 2006 Convocation shows the staff on stage with Rukmal too among them.

Even though Charles had been expected to work in relaxed manner. He soon realised that it was becoming too much. Even though for his part-time involvement at Imperial Institute, he had been told "Do what you can, when you can and at your own pace", Charles finally decided to resign from Imperial to be able to devote more time to work at the University.

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plaque


A memento

offered by

the staff

(Management
& Executive)

of
Imperial
Institute.


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autograph
The CEO
Rohan Wijeratne
presents
the plaque
to Charles

as well as an autographed group photo of the staff
as souvenir.

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The presentation took place at a farewell dinner.
On the left is a photo of the management and administration staff with (seated from left) Mr Munidasa, Registrar ... Dr Weerakoon, Academic Director ... Mr Rohan Wijeratne, CEO.
faculty
Photo opposite already used on the year 2004 page
shows the academic staff, the coordinators and examiners from Wales and the Directors.

The fact that Charles and the family had been taking care of Charles' parents since 1987 ... while they did it most willingly ... imposed constraints particularly during the last 10 years or so when they became very feeble.  It was impossible to leave them and so the opportunities for the family get out all together for more than a few hours became impossible. The father had died in 2001 but the mother was there.But as Charles was really tired the family managed to get two people to stay with the mother and managed a 2-day holiday in the mountains in Nov 2006.

watawala

A relatively cheap guest house with a bedroom that had two large beds and could take 6 persons was identifed. It was in Watawala, the region that generally records the highest rainfall in the country.

A niece from Felicia's side and a nephew from Charles' side too were invited to join.

The first day was spent in relaxed manner driving around & visting a few places for the nephew and the niece to get to know them.

Opposite: Stopping by
at a tea kiosk.

Lower Left:
Visiting
Upper Glencairn bungalow where Charles and family had spent a weekend about 12 years earlier.
Right: Giving them a chance to get to know a mini hydro power generation centre in that area.
watawala

watawala


In the Talawakelle area ...
with Devon Falls and St Clair's Falls in the background.

The car was left aside the second day!

It was set apart for a long walk with a fair amount of climbing ...
but Charles was happy he managed it ... feeling pretty normal  8 months after surgery.
watawala

Christmas approaches ...
A week before Christmas .. as we have done now for more than 20 years, the family gets together to prepare the traditional fruit cake which becomes part of the plate of sweetmeats presented to non-christian neighbours and friends. (They do similarly 'in return' at the Sinhala and Tamil New Year in April!)

cake
left to right and top to bottom:
Getting the flour ready  ... Nilmini cutting & chopping  the dried fruits ....Felicia doing similarly ...

The ingrediants are ready. Charles is busy preparing the egg whites.
And the mixing in a huge plastic can begins.
Mixing goes on ... Charles takes over the final stages ...

The cake is back from the bakery in trays. Cutting pieces and wrapping begins.

Early on Christmas morning ...  Charles and Felicia begin making 'Belgian' Waffles ... also for the plates to go out.


Remembering that a former student now in Canada had gifted a bottle of maple syrup .. Charles decides to make them "Belgo - Candian"  by pouring (as one sees ... using a syringe) maple syrup on the waffles
waffles

xmas meal

As Charles' mother was constrained either to the bed or to a wheel chair, Charles' brother and the families of the two cousin sisters (who grew up with Charles as 'sisters' as their mother had died when they were still in their infancy) came to Charles' place for a meal on Christmas day night. Asha, Rukmal's friend, and her parents joined in too.

Yes, it had finally been a difficult and trying year for Charles and the family ... but they had without doubt experienced that they were not alone at a moment of serious crisis ... that there were so many joined with them in brotherhood and love ...  and through all that they also experienced tremendous blessings.





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