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| Sometimes it happens that somebody, out of nowhere, comes and touches our life in way making us feel that this person should have come in our life much earlier. And may be that with his earlier arrival, our life could have a different course altogether. We end up blaming God and cursing for the late arrival of this person. I believe that people come and touch our life for a Reason or a Season or may be for the Life Time for a purpose. However hard we want their purpose to be different than what they arrive for, we are helpless against the Destiny and the Season doesn't get any longer. (Ye Dil Mange More). How I understand and take these Relationships for a Reason or Season or Life Time: When someone is in your life for a REASON. . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayers you sent up have been answered. And now it is time to move on. Then people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real, but, only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. |
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