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Women interested in CFNM Parties - what do they like?

One common aspect about CFNM parties is, when at their best, they are created, controlled and organized by women.  Many wonder, particularly men, how the rules and protocols are established for CFNM parties.   One question inolves, what women really do want in a CFNM party.  In this context, it should be remembered women vary considerably, but in the context of women willing to attend a CFNM party of some form or another, we have sought continuously to learn about their vision of a CFNM party.

We've conducted a number of polls and questionnaires seeking female responses.  These polls tell us there is indeed a variance among women interested in CFNM parties, although certain common attitudes exist.  The average girl-next-door may never entertain the idea of going to a swinger or sex-oriented party, or a party where there may be anticipation of many getting naked.  But when she learns there is no sex at these parties, and, only the men are nude, they often become more interested; thus, a considerably higher percentage of women in our society would enjoy CFNM parties than what many might expect.  But the variance comes to how "edgy" the party can get - hence, the need for polls so that we can host parties that provide the most enjoyment and satisfaction for women while also making sure they are comfortable with the agenda.

We polled many women on the original CFNM Party Station Group site.   In an attempt to make sure the women were not gender imposters (after all, this is the Internet) Many of these women were verified as to gender via webcam, personal knowledge of the moderators, phone conversations, etc.  If one went by those polls, the women of that group  indicated following:
 
1. The question was posed as to ascertain whether women wanted quick flashing and brief nudity, such as a "Full Monty" type of event, or alternatively, they wanted to be able to view the men nude in a much more prolonged situation.  Our polls showed 96% of the women believe that it should be mandatory that all men attending the event, without exception,  must strip completely naked, and once nude must remain that way at all times during the entire party.  
 
2.  The clear majority of women, 72%, felt no female nudity whatsoever, even toplessness, should be allowed.  About another 10% indicated flashing/toplessnes of the women would be acceptable, and the remainder felt if a woman wanted to get naked, it would be acceptable. 
 
3.  The majority of women indicated the best rule is for the men to strip nude upon entering the party, and remain that way until they leave.  A lesser number believe that there should be a period of socializing while everyone is clothed, then, at a designated time, the hostess instructs all the men to strip, and remain that way thereafter.  Finally, there was a small percentage that a full monty dance type of ceremony occur.   Regardless of the process of the men getting nude, virtually all women would prefer that once the men were naked, they should stay that way for the remainder of the party.
 
4. As it pertains to men sporting erections, 99% of the women indicated that it would be acceptable for the guys to sport erections freely without being embarrassed, and, should remain in the party environment even though erect..  About half the women indicating that a major reason they are coming is to see the guys' erections.
 
5.  As it pertains to the men conducting self gratification in front of the women at the party, this was the only surprise we had.  We had thought the women would be bit more conservative indicating that it would be acceptable if done discretely.  Not this group.  98% of the women felt that if done in a sensual way without drawing attention to it, a man should be able to sit with one or some of the women and masturbate to climax for their viewing pleasure while remaining in the main party environment.  As it pertains to a more open and accepting display of the men masturbating, 2 out of every 3 women that responded want to be assured of the opportunity to watch the men jack off and cum by making it an integral part of the party agenda through games/contests where the men masturbate and cum for the ladies.  

6.  Reasons that women stated they wanted to come to CFNM parties were indicated in the following, with most desired at the top along with the number of female votes for each:
 
1)-  They enjoy looking at naked men (42);
 
2) & 3)  They want to be able to touch and fondle naked men. 

They want to be able to contrast the variations in the penises and balls on the men (38-tie);
 
4) & 5)  They could prick tease and flirt with the men and liked the fact that the men would be unable to conceal from the women their cocks thus providing a rare opportunity for the women to witness the level of cause-and-effect of prick teasing and guys getting erections from such teasing.

They like the idea of being served like royalty by naked men (36-tie);
 
5) The unfairness and inequity of it putting women in a stronger position (30);
 
6) The enjoyment of seeing guys in an embarrassing situation as they try to mingle and meet ladies while the ladies are clothed but the men are naked (29);
 
7) & 8 Meeting others that have the same interests.

Looking at the naked butts on guys (28);
 
9)  the enjoyment of the advantage the girls having an upper hand on the guys, the...the "ha-ha-na-na, the girls can see the boys but the boys can't see the girls!" (27);
 
10) the disadvantage it puts the man in a social setting when trying to talk to her (25);
 
11) being able to see the entire package of a man before she entertains going out with him (24);
 
12) & 13) She enjoys female domination and this puts men in a very vulnerable and subordinate state that she would enjoy.

The ability for her to grab a guy's balls, literally "having him by the balls" as he tried to chat with her (22-tie);
 
14) & 15) She wants to meet other people and this would be a fun and different environment for it.

She's a closet voyeur, and this way she can fully enjoy her voyeurism in an environment that caters to just that (21);
 
16) and 17) she's a feminist and likes the empowerment of women putting them in a stronger position while turning the tables on the guys.

She has a thing for men's balls and this way she can see many all at once (16-tie);
 
18. A possible place to meet a guy for romance (13)
 

Conclusion -

This poll reflects just one group of women and what interests them in CFNM parties.  In general, previous polls with different women show consistency in most of the above responses, with the exception of men masturbating at CFNM parties wherein the recent poll shows a much higher desire for men to openly masturbate for the women to watch. 

As always, the group of women hosting the respective CFNM party will dictate the protocol, rules and agenda depending upon their own likes.  However, these polls provide a better understanding as to general thoughts and attitudes of women in what they want, and thus gives a great idea of how to organize and conduct a CFNM party absent specific input by those women attending.

A Party Just for the Ladies

Story by Tammy Smiling

Story by Brad

There are many swing clubs, but Thad�s, located in San Diego, is unique in that it has a CFNM policy. This is a club with a bar, dance area, stage and pool table that has as a permanent rule that all men must be completed naked whereas the woman do not have to disrobe; rather, women are encouraged to wear attractive, sexy clothing such and lingerie, a teddy or nighty, or even a two piece bathing suit is acceptable for women.  Consequently, the women are almost always clothed but all the men are always nude.   The following is a true account by one of our moderators:

 "I was there only once a few years ago, but I understand the program hasn't changed. Unlike other swing clubs, single males and out-of-towners are welcome. But my experience was different than what I've experienced at other swing clubs, ergo, a strong focus on sharing sex with others. That was obviously the draw for the guys coming, but ultimately a different experience for many guys resulted.  
 
The premises is a collection of various construction add-ons to what was once a home in an industrial area of SD. Upon entering, I met an incredible girl in the foyer. She was dressed in a bikini with a body like one of the Hawaiian Tropic girls - awesome, with beautiful long blonde hair.  She had a plain face and was probably pushing her mid 40s in age. But very friendly. She was just a guest checking in. A guy took my annual dues  and I was lead by another girl down to the locker room. She was wearing hot pants and a shirt tied in front around the waist - not as attractive as the first, but was fairly young and halfway decent. She told me she would show me the premises, but I had to strip naked first. She left and came back in a couple of minutes as I stood there in my underwear. I removed them standing stark naked in front of her, she quickly glanced at my cock, smiled and said, "Follow me".   
She showed me the premises, which included several bedrooms, a Jacuzzi and ad hoc dining area, and the main clubroom. The main clubroom had various tables, stools around a bar and a pool table in the middle. It was filled with people, probably a dozen women and about 20 guys. And although women can go nude if they want, every woman was clothed. Some in something sexy like a teddy, lingerie or bikinis, but none were revealing anything. But the guys were all buck-naked. This never changed throughout the evening despite numerous more couples and singles coming and going.  
 
It was clear some select swinging was going on, but it was not occurring in the main bar area.  In the bar room, the atmosphere appeared to be an opportunity for women to have an upper hand in teasing and taunting the guys. The guys, all very horny, were hoping in desperation to engage the women in sex, and the women loved the control this afforded them.  
 
At one point two guys introduced themselves to two girls and asked them to shoot pool, which included the attractive blonde in the bikini I met upon entering. The guys were obviously from a military base and were chiseled, and fairly well endowed. The girls happily accepted. There were other young guys standing around watching and another girl sitting on a bar stool next to me watching the game.  
 
These ladies were definitely flirting and prick teasing. Being a little older than these guys I could see the game at play...these girls wanted to prick tease these guys into a serious case of blue balls, but I doubted the guys would score. Girls in these types of venues that intend to take you to bed do not leave the outcome in such question for the guy, and they touch and sit with the guys in a different manner than how these girls were acting. I would catch glimpses of these girls eyeing the dicks of the guys to see if there prick teasing was successfully producing an erection.  
 
For instance, when one guy was sitting waiting to shoot the blonde girl laid her hand on his lap just next to his cock, but not touching it. As he said something, she leaned over as though she didn't hear with her facing pointing down at his cock, letting him know she was staring at his dick and smiling while she listened. Her intended effect on him was successful as he began to get a semi hard-on.  
 
The other two girls watched this smiling and knowing what was up. When he got up to shoot the same girl "accidentally" bumped into his cock with her leg and feeling her bare skin on his dick undoubtedly further excited him. She looked down at his cock and said with a smile "Oops".  
 
Finally, he was shooting and bending over the table trying to figure out the best angle when the pretty blonde pretending to help him analyze the shot kneeled onto one knee to get a straight on view of the balls on the table; but she did this next to him holding onto the inside of his leg and leaning over very far such that her face was just a few inches from his semi-erect cock. She stayed there a long time acting like she was coaching him on the shot while the other two girls watched his penis throb until it was rock hard and fully erect and pointing straight up and out. I must say he was not the only one being affected by her flirtatious prick teasing.  
 
The coup de grace came when he was standing there a minute later with his fully erect shaft pointing at the three girls. He was oblivious to what was going on with his attention at that moment on the pool table, but the three girls were giggling at something. I looked at them and followed their gaze down to his hard and erect penis. The head of his penis was glistening and I then saw a big drop of precum oozing out of his penis hole and dripping to the floor leaving a long glistening strand of precum trailing the drop still attached to the tip of his penis.
 
As the girls giggled and stared at this he suddenly noticed their attention and looked down. You could see the embarrassment and total humiliation on his face despite his attempts to conceal it with a smile - and there was no where for him to hide and covering up was against the rules - he was forced to just stand there and let the girls, and everyone else, look at it as it continued to ooze precum. 

 
Everyone watched this poor guy, fully knowing how very horny he was as he just stood their naked with an erection and precum dripping out for all the ladies to see - but also knowing he couldn't do anything at that moment being a victim and fool of the prick teasing trick the girl played on him giving him a major case of blue balls.  The confirmation of their intent came when the girls shortly left the party thereafter, laughing as they left.  Although one might feel sorry for the guy, I believe having these flirtatious prick teasing women come, never disrobe, but just want to enjoy sexually frustrating the naked men and then leave add a wonderful touch to these CFNM parties, and good for them!
 
There was no place guys could go for privacy to masturbate as even the men's rest room had a window opening to the main entrance. So some of the guys would sit at the bar and stroke themselves even though it was in clear view of everyone in the room.  When this guy ended up masturbating, we all understood he needed the releases.

Another woman would wait for her husband to go to the rest room or to get a drink and become very flirtatious with some of the guys. At one moment, she even had her hand wrapped around one of the guys' hard dick shaft as he sat next to her talking with her. But when her husband returned she left her hand on this guys dick squeezing it for her husband to see.  The husband got angry and told the guy to take a hike. The guy scurried off and the woman just laughed - it was clear she loved being surrounded by a bunch of horny naked men so she could make her husband jealous.  
 
Of course, there was some sex going on in the back rooms, but certainly not enough to prevent an epidemic of blue balls in the club.  
 
That was my experience there. It may have been different on other nights, but many there were reportedly regulars. The experience gave me mixed feelings, one being very erotic but the other feeling slighted by the experience."

Getting Educated

Story by Rhonda

The following was posted in a discussion group concerning first experiences of a sexual nature.  Rhonda was a college senior at a major university in Southern California when she gave a recount of her first experience seeing nude men. 

"I'm one of those girls that will admit to enjoying seeing a good looking guy naked.  I was in my late teens at the time when I went with two girl friends to a clothing optional beach near Palos Verdes in California called "Sacred Beach". It was a warm sunny day and none of us had been to one before. When we got there we were delighted to see so a number of  young, muscular guys walking around in the buff. We threw our towels in an area where there were a lot of guys, and although some were older unattractive men, some had great bods. What struck us was that most of the beach goers were male, and with the exception of two older couples, the few girls there had left their suits on. But every single guy was completely naked, which we was definite eye candy for us at such a young age.

We never took off our bathing suits as it made us feel a little more protected in that environment, and we really didn't want to.   We decided early on to flirt with these guys and get some attention.

It wasn't too hard as my two friends had good figures, and although slightly more "healthy", I've always been attractively curvaceous. We laid right in front of the portion of the beach where there is a lot of traffic and there were tons of guys walking back and forth right in front of us stark naked. It was at an area where the beach path came directly towards us then sharply curved to the right just in front of us. This way the men would be walking straight toward us until almost upon our towels then turn, and correspondingly they'd be walking away from us as they walked the opposite direction. Sitting there they'd come walking upon us with their dicks at our eye level giving us the perfect opportunity to check each guy out without looking obvious, then, as he walked away, we'd check out his naked butt. It was as though we were in a men's locker room sitting directly in front of the showers, and one by one watch the naked guys walk in and out - we were really enjoying it.

For us, it was an education because I had just turned 18 and had seen very little in the way of male genitalia. The variation in penis sizes and shapes of the men was interesting but what also caught my attention was the differences in their balls. Some of the guys had tight little scrotums with tiny balls whereas other men had large balls that swung to and fro as they walked in front of us. At one point a naked man about 35 walked by and started to talk to us, standing right in front of our towels. He was well built and his cock, which was dangling at eye level right in front of us, drew our stares because his penis was very large and thick. Even though we were wearing sunglasses, it must have been obvious to him that our attention was on his dick and not him as we made small talk with him. It gave me the opportunity to closely observe his penis, which was circumcised, and I particularly enjoyed studying the crown on the head of his penis which reminded me of a little helmet on the end of his weenie. Because we were sitting and he was standing I could easily see the very tip of his penis. It was then I noticed a clear fluid oozing out of his penis hole, giving me my first up-close look at a man's precum. His dick then started to throb a bit and stiffen, which confirmed to us that he was not only enjoying being exposed to us, but it was getting him a bit aroused. Although I could tell one of my friends was getting a bit uncomfortable with his gratuitous display of his arousal; however, I and the other friend were getting a kick out of it, so we humored the guy by carrying on friendly conversation such that he would continue to feel welcomed knowing that it was acceptable to sport his arousal - afterall, I too was enjoying viewing his arousal.  When he finally walked off we burst into laughter and confirmed we were all seeing the same thing, it was such fun.

And we would smile whenever a cute guy walked by nude as it would often end up the same way; that is him standing exposed right in front of us as though he were lining up for a close inspection, which was pretty much the case. Eventually, we had several nude guys laying around us. Not all were young and good looking, but it was quite fun in any case. We went back a couple of more times until I met my boyfriend, who didn't want me to go anymore. It�s been a long time, but certainly remember those great times well."

Upon reading this story, it would seem Rhonda would love to attend one of our CFNM parties!

Please email us any stories you would like posted.  If our moderators think they are on topic, and appropriate for the board, we'll post them.

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