Narcissus
The flowers on Elmer's stone may be quite revealing. They are clearly daffodils, otherwise known as NARCISSUS. According to Keister's book Stories in Stone, the daffodil as used in funerary art can have the negative conotations associated with narcissism of vanity and self-love. It could also indicate triumph over these quailties, thus representing divine love and sacrifice. Either way, it is quite interesting that the Narcissus was chosen for Elmer's grave.