From Odile, spouse of
deGruy, to Colonel Louis Derbes, husband of Claire ? and son of Charles, in
Toulon, father of Josephe, born in 1881 who lives in Toulon.
New
Orleans, July 29, 1917
My dear Louis,
Your letter dated June 20,
reached me on July 23. I could tell you how much pleasure it gave me. I would
say that even my children, not having the pleasure to know you, have shared my
joy and from hand to hand, the letter was read, followed by one thousand and
one questions concerning all of you and the beautiful country of France. It is
useless to add that I wrote a long narrative of all of you and of your dear
country, so much that they have an itchy desire to see all of you. If it was
not fro this horrible war and for mostly these frightening submarines. I would
not be surprised that two of them would go ahead with their plan and definitely
I would have joined them despite my 69 years! Can you see me crossing the ocean
to see you and kiss all of you before I die. What an illusion! Lets pray sincerely
and keenly for the end of this massacre, specially now when our American sons
will add to the number of casualties. Thank God, so far my three sons are above
the required age for the draft. But when the draft age will be extended, will
they be among the rows of draftees? God have pity for us.
Now I come to explain your
request. You ask me the number of my children. Well, I am left with two. I had
fourteen children and I assure you that by this deed, my youth had much
sadness.
In October 1856, I got
married: Octave was the best of husbands and his death on July 14, 1915 has
left me with a very big emptiness. More, for the last two years, he was
stricken with a stroke and he remained paralyzed. During the last year of his
life, he was completely impotent and he was asking for my care at all times. He
suffered a lot, but with a sublime resignation helped and strengthened by the
sacraments of the Church.
As I was telling you
above, my youth has been saddened by continual losses of my children, and their
long and painful sicknesses. As you can see, I have six angels in Heaven. I
hope they pray for us.
At least God blessed me
with the children he left me. Laurence, my oldest daughter, is married and has
eight children. Her husband is Swiss and his name is Gubler. She is perfectly
happy. Two of her sons are in the Seminary and are studying to become priests.
She has three girls and five boys. My second daughter Edwidge, married Morgan
Villarubia. She had six children, but one of them, at 18 years old, young child
has been cowardly slain in “Hot Springs”. Lisette, the third daughter who is
determined to go to France, is not married and she is a professor at one of the
many public schools. Teaching jobs are in demand and asking lots of aptitudes.
Joseph, with Albin calling him an “artistic writer” is married, has three
children and has a great job with a government bank. With his job, he is exempt
from the military draft. He also think to escort us across the ocean. Raoul is
a pharmacist, has a nice wife and two very nice children, a boy and a girl.
Louis just had his third child and now he has two girls and a boy. Anita, (Mrs.
Gaudet) has also three girls. Finally, Odette, the last one is not married.
What a list! Will you have
the patience to read all this? Our American family is very large, you can judge
it. I now realize that I placed my page upside down, what a distraction. At my
age it is not forgiven.
Elodie lives now in New
Orleans, but she always lived in the country. Having been a young widow from
Hippolyte Gilly, she remarried with S. Achee and has raised a relatively large
family of eight children, four boys and four girls. One of the girls is a nun
and all the others are married. Marie, our youngest sister was a nun and died
in August 1914. Rodolphe had two boys and he never had a girl. Edouard died at
a young age, leaving a young woman and two small children. Stephen lives and
has a numerous following. I do not think I omitted somebody.
Jeanne, to whom I gave
back the birth certificate of her father you sent it to her with kindness,
spend several hours with us and we spoke all about all of you. She showed me
your photo and having two photos, she agreed to leave me one. Did you know that
you became a beautiful boy since my departure! You are in all your youth at the
time the photo was taken. I would lie to have your actual photos if it is
possible. Albin and me have exchanged our photos and he has also become
attractive. The photo of all my family which was sent to him is horrible and
constantly my children to have sent such an ugly work. We still are planning to
make more photos, but we continually postponing.
Being a little late, let
me congratulate you for your promotion, mainly your decoration. I know the
price of the red ribbon on the lapel and I cannot stop complimenting you.
The devotion of your
youngest daughter, the name I do not know, is also worth of admiration. Her
self-denial and devotion command the respect and deserve all the praises. Kiss
her well for me as well as my good cousin Josephe and her two cherubs.
All my children depend on
me to tell you the desire to know you all and they join me to kiss you with all
our heart. I kiss you with all the fondness of a devoted cousin.
Odile.
Write soon if you have
free time. Can you unscramble me? I fear you cannot.