1. i will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits and experiences.i realize that failing to do so, will not only prevent my Top and i from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
2. i will not try to manipulate my Top. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should. In other words, i will not Top from the bottom.
3. i will keep an open mind about trying things i am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. i will continue to grow as a submissive and a human being.
4. i will accept the responsibility of discovering what please my Top and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires.
5. i will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. i know that submissive does not equal doormat.
6. i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives. i will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will learn and benefit from where i have been. i will take the time to help those new to the scene to start out on the correct path.
7. i will be responsive to my Top. i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may try and assist Him in His responsibilities as my Authority. i know that Dominants are not telepaths and will not expect my Top to know my thoughts or feelings that i do not share.
8. i will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. i will not place total blame on my Top when it is not warranted simply because He is the Dominant. i realize things may not work out as they should at times, and i will do my best to put it behind me and move on.
9. i will give my gift of submission only to those who can responsibly accept is and desire to have it. i will not place anyone in the position of Topping me non-consensually, nor will i give my respect to someone who has not earned it.
10. i know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think of myself as a better submissive because i choose to submit on a different level than another. i will not be boastful of the experiences that i have had as a bottom.
11. i will be obediant to my Top even if i disagree with what He is requesting. i realize He has my best interests at heart and often knows better than i what i need in a particular situation.
12. i know that my actions reflect upon my Top and will do my best to make others see Him in a positive way. i will not intentionally embarrass or displease my Dominant.
13. Above all i will wear my title of submissive with honor. i will never cause others to believe being submissive means to be weak, or sub- human. i will take pride in who and what i am, and never show myself in a negative way.