Upon reading my previous blog entry from 2 days ago, its quite obvious I was extremely upset when I wrote it.  Although I wrote what I felt at that time, implying that if you are healthy enough for sex, you are healthy enough to work, is not true.  Asthma is a terrible disease.  Especially when it keeps my low-life ex-husband from being able to move, or work long enough to get caught up on the $8000 back childsupport that he owes. Arthritis is also a terrible disease.  The people in there 60's who have had to work and suffer with it for years know absolutly nothing about how to live. They should learn from my ex.   My ex-husband has figured out how to get his family to take on his responsibilities.  They do things such as carry insurance on HIS DAUGHTER(s), and help him with things around the house, such as baby sitting,  so that he has time in his busy non-working schedule to PARTY.  He "cant handle" watching his own kids now because he has asthma and arthritis.  Of course when we were married, he couldn't handle watching Raven because of, oh yea, mommy was never there.  That's right, I was the reason he couldnt watch her then.  It was because I was either at work or school all the time.  PLEASE!   He remains a pathetic excuse for a man.  He isnt a man, he is a coward, and a complete failure to his children.  He needs someone in his family to do an intervention to address this.  If he had anyone that would stand up to him, he might, just might be able to pull together what time he has left in this world, and be a decent father for his children.  All he has to do is PRETEND like he cares. It takes 5 minutes a week to call or write.   One thing Raven wrote on her "I Wish "  list at school is " I wish there was a cure for asthma and arthritis so that my dad could spend time with me".  He does not deserve this child.  She is amazing, and a blessing to me and my husband. 

If you havent noticed, I am still upset over the way she was treated by him.  I am upset that she did not get medical care that she needed while visiting.  This is the 3rd day I have had to watch after her like a hawk because of her being so sick.  This did not have to get this bad.  She went to the doctor again today, and recieved more antibiotics.  If I wasnt a nurse, she would have been put in the hospital for IV fluids for dehydration.    It is because of this that I am proud and honored to announce, I am starting the process to revoke all of his parental rights to her.  Of course in the process I will be going after the back support or anything material  that he has acquired, to settle his debts.  I am also happy to announce that my darling husband will be giving her his last name and she will shed her current name forever.  Now if her dad  magically decides to take an interest in her life and makes an honest heartfelt effort to be a father, all-be-it long distance, then I am not above negotiating.  I am sure he is too arrogant and "sick" to dial the phone though,  so this should be a fairly easy case in court.  For the family members that care, I am sorry, but you know I have been patient for 7 years now.  You can call, visit, etc any time.  Her visitation will not be kept from you, although there will be changes.

Lets see, I think that is enough ranting for one day.  May you never have the curse of dealing with a pathetic looser like him in your life time.