I recently invited Raven to join my blog and become one of my special friends. I read her blog concerning men and transsexuals, This is what she wrote and I hope she does not mind that I reprint it here,  she deserves the credit for it. I liked it so well that I wanted to add my two cents to it. "I hope you do not mind Raven."

Raven wrote  "if a man certain he wants a transexual for his girl why is he ashamed to be seen with her,but will bed her, does this make him ashamed of her or ashamed of what he have become?"

We as Transsexuals have always been  intrigued by men. "WHY"?  Because we always portray our real selves. We always strive to look and dress our best.  Face it guys look at the difference between a transsexual and a normaly dressed genetic female, WHICH ONE LOOKS THE BEST"?
 A transsexual "KNOWS" how to please her man, not only in the bed but in normal life also. We have many steps above the genetic woman when it comes to pleasing our men.
 I have dated quite a few men and most I have to agree with Raven is that all they want is a one night stand with a transsexual, They loved it and they know it but the thought crosses their mine "WHAT IF MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY FIND OUT?" If a man is truely intrested in a transsexual he will have the balls to stand up for his choice. One man that I dated made that choice and we were together for over a year until his job took him elese where. But we keep in constant contact with each other by phone and emails. This is one man who did not care what his friends and family thought. He always told me that it was the happiest time in his life and to this day he is still not interested in genetic females.

 The problem lies in that men do not have the balls to make the choice, what others or family would think of him matters more to him than a great and wonderful relationship with a very special lady.

 Thats my two cents!!!!!