If you are
Son / Daughter of Bhudia and used patel surname or any else (patel not family
surname). Perhaps you shouldn’t married with other Bhudia family daughter
/ Son however they aren’t your close relative or few generation far
cousin.
Why
Shouldn’t married Bhudia with Bhudia?
1
Religiously we are soul mate brother and sister isn’t allowed married in
same surnames belong Bhudia family.
2
Biological Chance is we may have same blood group, may not but future in your
child could born with several disability / thelesemiya / others genetic
default. If this kind married widely allowed may society could harmful. You
can’t defend your self saying other (religious) peoples are married with
cousins it get nothing wrong. But commonly Christian and hindu society not
allowed married in same surname family.
According
“KATHAKAR” explored we applies 7 generation “SANAN
SUTAK” (mean we close relative) Than after not applied sanan sutak mean
by we are 7 generation after 2 cousins not relative. So question is 7
generation after Bhudia can marry to cousin? Are you believe is it right step?
If we only close family at 7 generation than what point to make Bhudia family
tree at 18 generation?
We look at
the tree which grow up from the foundation (Jamin). Whole tree spread up with
more branch (Dali) arms. These dali is each others relatives and drew same
water, never fought or break up each others. Same way our 2 hand, 2 leg are close
relative of the body. It never hate each other. SO HOW CAN SOMEBODY SAID 7
GENERATION AFTER WE ARE’NT CLOSE RELATIVE?
Written
by Bhimji Lalji Bhudia & Dr Hirji H
Bhudia Date 01st Jan 2008 Tuesday