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A Fourth View on Dominance

[NOTE: The views espoused here are simply that - someone's views. - Dornic]

A Dominant is an expert at:

  1. Determining what flaws and faults he has and learning to control and deal with them.

  2. Realizing their ego and self esteem must rest on a more solid foundation than who calls them Sir.

  3. Learning as much as possible about themselves and the aspects of D/s they wish to have incorporated into their lifestyle and being able to articulate it.

  4. Learning that a woman submits to a man she can respect and trust.

  5. Learning that self control is the absolute best control to have.

  6. Understanding that most women wish to be exclusive to the Master they trust and respect. That seeking their input before pursuing another makes the Master stronger..not weaker.

  7. Understand that in order to have trust and respect from a submissi, they must prove through their actions they are worthy of such.

  8. Understanding that the submissive who would submit to you has a mind and can use it.

  9. Understanding their dominance comes from within and how it is exercised is more the measure of a true man than anything he can do.

  10. Understanding that character, honesty, integrity, fairness and consistency are the hallmark of a *man* and very necessary to be a *MASTER*

 

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