BDSM Beginners Kit
A View on Dominance
[NOTE: The views espoused here are simply that - someone's views. Personally I think this article is somewhat distant from the majority of viewpoints, nevertheless it has been presented here as a valid viewpoint - Dornic]
The Dominant
DOMINANT: commanding, controlling or prevailing over all
others...overlooking and commanding from a superior elevation...of
relating to or exerting ecological dominance...being the more effective
or predominant one in action...of relating to, or exerting genetic
dominance
DOMINANT, PREDOMINANT, PARAMOUNT PREPONDERANT, SOVEREIGN...superior to
ALL others in power, influence or importance!
To peer backward through the shrouds of time itself we look into the
heart of humankind. It is important to consider genetics when searching
for understanding in the actions of the human psyche. The clues are
there, visible and ignored. Those clues tend to be uncomfortable and
lead to unmistakably uncomfortable conclusions.
The Dominant is the 'BEAST'. That being capable of standing atop the
crushed, mangled bodies of others in the pursuance of his/her objective.
Historically, the dominant was the individual who had the capacity,
timing and will to overcome, outmaneuver and/or conquer others. Some
dominant's lead through fear, using hatred, pain and threat to control
and drive those within their realm into compliance with their wishes.
Some dominant's lead through physical dominance, using their physical
attributes to 'handle' less endowed individuals. Both of these
inevitably fall victim to the dominant who lead's through the most
deadly combination of all - intellect, intuition and focused will. The
more predominant the ancestral strains the more ancestor's within the
line will express dominance.
High-end Dominant's are few. Those that TRULY surmount their world.
The Dominant is born! He/she is the living manifestation of thousands of
years of evolution and patterned mutation, quite literally genetic
history. The traits are distinct, visible and tractable throughout
history. If you look into the past you see lines of ancestry marching
backward carrying their legacy traits through endless wars,
devastations, invasions and explorations.
This consideration is perhaps the most clearly understood in the very
VERY distant simple past. The attacking of one tribe upon another for
food, tools, territory and race survival (or the sharing and spreading
of genes). (You will find it is an almost universal human trait for men
to desire to cross-pollenate as many viable females as possible.)
Leading each tribe would be one individual, it's sovereign. After the
attack, the most successful of these dominants would live. Almost
invariably they would drive off or summarily KILL the vanquished
dominant. As 'new' sovereign this dominant would harvest the spoils of
the attack. Part of those spoils are living human beings. Both male and
female human's of lesser dominant strains. Those would be taken by force
to either succumb to the new sovereign's rules and desires or die.
"The alignment of power!" Before and beyond nearly any other thing
human's desire to align with the winner. This is a survival trait.
Conflicting with a known winner leads to destruction. Among the spoils
would stand the full array of human designs. Approximately 10% of the
losers would remain loyal to their vanquished sovereign, unable to kneel
to another's rule. These most frequently DIED! About 80% of the losers
were able to offer compliance enough to survive. A small fragment of the
losers did something else. These were most frequently the mates and
children of the former sovereign, they desired to retain their personal
power, increase it if possible. Improvise, Adapt, Overcome. Learn the
ways of your enemy by 'becoming' them. These losers were from lines of
DOMINANCE! Since their line was less 'successful' than the conquering
dominant, they wished and needed to merge with this superior genetic
line. To accomplish that several things occurred.
One of these was mutating survival behaviors. The further one must reach
down to submit the more difficult it becomes....unless.... Consider, a
person of perceived low status is born and raised to service. They see
NO issue within the act of serving another. A person of perceived higher
status is NOT born and raised to offer service, they must reach deeper
within themselves to find the power and strength of their genetic line
to allow them to not only offer themselves but in such a way as to
become IMPORTANT in the alignment of future power. They wish to RETAIN
status and power. These seem in conflict, but nature overcomes MANY such
things... The best chance of future survival of their bloodline is in
ALIGNING with a WINNER! Loser's die or become servants of the winners!
Basic anthropology.
To look deeper you have to consider the age of the conqueror. The taking
of territory was necessarily a brutal, violent, destructive action. The
successful dominant had to have a level of detachment to the agonies of
destruction in order to SUCCEED. This is a TRAIT! It is called being
'ruthless' - 'ruth' = love. To be ruthless is to be WITHOUT LOVE! It is
a capacity to take action REGARDLESS!
Both winning dominant and those of the losing dominant strain SHARE this
TRAIT! The capacity for detached, rational action in the midst of CHAOS.
The surviving loser would want to be SUCCESSFUL within the realm of the
surperior dominant. They would use the SAME TRAIT to conquer in this
less visible battle. The submissive is the MOST successful
DOMINANT within the SUPERIOR Dominant's realm. That submissive will
utilize every possible tool to achieve their goal. Their goal being the
strongest children, and the strongest chance of future survival. They
needed to become indispensible to the Superior Dominant. Therefore they
had to be able to become VALUABLE to that Dominant.
How does one dominant submit to another?...Through instinctual
biological responses. The deeper recesses of the mind 'know' the desire
to survive, creates avenues and pathways unique to allowing this to
occur. These hidden traits are passed and shared within the incestuous
pool of dominant strains. When conquered, acknowledgedly vanquished, the
losing dominant 'see's' one more powerful, stronger, faster, more
intelligent and most importantly more successful than themselves, this
recognition 'trigger's' responses.
For the purposes of this article I will call these auto-responses and
for purposes of brevity I will merely list them here. These
auto-responses MAY include: Posturing (assuming a position of surrender
or vulnerability), sheening (releasing phermones through the body
membrane to express this surrender in scent), loss of control of body
responses (freezing, sometimes manifesting as the inability to walk, run
or escape), listening for command (often an attitude of TOTAL focus on
speech and direction of the superior dominant), slurred speech (part of
an altering of the mental responses, also known as entry into
sub-space), exposed obvious arousal coupled to seductive responses or
openly offering sex and the ability to transmute pain and mentally
detach from the event.
It became the losing dominant's desire to entice, beguile and or endear
themselves to the winning dominant. This was done primarily through a
POSITIVE response! If a winning dominant is 'having a good time', he/she
is much less likely to KILL, MAIM or further destroy and MUCH more
likely to desire to 'have a good time AGAIN in the future', thus the
losing dominant gains a measure of value, life and
ultimately..SURVIVAL!!! or SUCCESS!!!
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