| Things Unsaid.... Can Hurt Too.... Yo I've got to ask you something? Have you ever been judged? Was it good or bad? Did they really know you or just seen you from afar??? How did it feel? Was it family or friends? Pretty bad if it was family eh. I mean family is for life it�s your blood, its like the grounds of which you were brought up from? So I guess it would be pretty lame if FOR whatever reasons, that out of the blue you start hearing that your FAMILY was saying little things. Cause eventually the little things start to get to you because you would expect that from someone at school from the "in crowd" or some stupid team who thinks they are king/queen of the world. Or even people out there in the real would. NEVER your family... well... I personally think that family should support you through even the worst of times... and they wouldn't make you feel that everything you do isn't good enough for them. I mean it ranges from different things. From the person you are, the people you date, your beliefs and values, maybe even the way you dress or look? Who knows? But regardless family is everything. And if you can't turn to them whom can you turn too? You know it kind of reminds me of a friend of mine. She has this boyfriend who like she was totally in love with. Wasn�t sure if he was "the one" for her. But she's only 17 how would she know that u know it�s just something you got to wait out.... She knew she couldn't jump to the conclusion that he would be forever. Because forever can be taken from you with the snap of fingers... Well as the story goes... she introduced the family to her significant other and an issue came up about a boy that "supposedly" like her... And of course the family likes this person! He was handsome, seemed nice so why not? So when a function came up my friend felt like she was in a room screaming not being able to get anyone to listening. Basically suffocating.... And no way to get out of it... Everywhere she turned there was always someone mentioning something about this "boy" who didn't even like her but they all seem to think he does. Then it came to people (well family) saying they didn't like her bf. He rubbed them the wrong way; they can't put their finger on it, etc. Because he didn't talk much at a family party he went to. But What guy or even girl so you know talks a lot to people he pretty much just met? (Personally if I were that person, I would be super shy and worried about saying something and being judged if saying the wrong thing). But You know what.... you people got to realize no matter what your going to do your going to have people judge you and your going to feel like your all alone, your going to feel like your to good enough, your going to feel like not bothering anymore. But just giving up is so easy! You would be giving in to those people, when really you should be the one holding your ground. You could call it a "test" between you and your "other" person. I mean if he/she sticks by you then I guess its meant to be, most people would just give up... you hardly find someone who is going to stick around and love you and love you and know that people around him fins something wrong with him, and pretty much judge him because of one thing or another. But you know it just might not work out the way you plan. People can only take so much before then snap and when they snap there is no like getting to them because they are in a world all on there own. And I'm glad things will maybe look up for my friend if her message gets across to people that she's sick of respecting those who don�t respect her in the same matter. But I would be there for her if things didn't work out. I would feel bad that the best thing that ever walked into her life was taken away just as fast by something stupid. And I know she has said to me she would never forgive those people who took her baby away from her. Never and she was pretty serious about it. But my friends boyfriend is a sweetie and everyone knows that he loves her... you can just tell when he sees her I mean his eyes light up and its like he's still seeing her for the first time and falling in love all over again... So from one teenager to another... before you judge someone look into the mirror, and I don�t mean glance and think, "wow I look good today" either. I mean really look, look inside you. So when you walk out that door you know that you would want to be treated like you treat other people, not judging them for what they look like, who they are, or how they think, but because they are apart of your family, a part of your everyday life, or just because they are unique (just like u were made). Cause weather or not every time you judge someone, that person is getting more and more hurt without you or anyone else realizing it. By: Christina Sears July 24, 2002 Copy Right �02� |
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