Hi All, I feel that there are many males in this group who are disguised under female ids and post some unbelievable messages. But at the same time there are many females who keep posting very useful advises and messages like Anamika, Prabha, Nisha and others. I have posted some stories before in the group which were sent by some email friends. Also I decided to participate in the discussions and here is my first message. I am a female, married with 2 kids with good (I consider above average than most indian couples) marital life. My husband and me are open about it and talk, tease and play about sex. I had sex before I got married and my husband knows it as well. That was some thing which he did not digest it when he came to know (we also had lot of fights rregarding it), but ultimately he accepted it and later appreciated me for my frankness. That is one of the reasons we are more open in discussing about sexual aspects as we matured in our marriage with each other than most of typical indian couples. He was a virgin when we got married. I am 5'5" good looking and in my early 30s. When it comes to oral sex, I really get lot of pleasure in sucking his tool most of the times. I also love to play with his tool a lot with my hands, knead it, tease it, bend it, slap it and kiss it a lot. I love the warm feeling its throbbing nerves generate in my hands and mouth. I like my husband going down on me too. He likes probing a lot in my tops, between my thighs and buttocks. He really enjoys it and can see the sheer redness in his face with want when he does that. But one thing that I dont enjoy is swallowing semen (I never did and dont intend to do it). It seems like it is a no one enjoys situation. I dont think males have pleasure just watching females swallowing their cum and females as I feel other females like me definitely dont enjoy it swallowing either. My husband like to talk dirty inside our bedroom walls and we try to live out our fantasies too sometimes. I will start sharing some of my experiences and fantasies in the group and at the same time I will try to participate in the discussions too. Sharmi