I think that sex before marriage is absolutely wrong. When I do the deed, I want it to be to my soul mate, my one and only, with the wedding band on my left hand! I think it's wrong that people lose it even before they're 18. *that's the legal age in California; in other states, it's as low as 13!* That's why I made a solemn vow to myself that I would never ever do anything with any guy *in that way* until I'm married; and when I marry, it will be only once. *I mean I'm only getting married once. :P* Why do it anyway? I'd like to offer something as sacred as virginity to my love, and not some passer-by or a crush or a fling. I want it to be the real deal, and then I would be comfortable with it.