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What I am telling your brothers is nothing new. some of our great scholars were men ahead of their time. The time to apply these teachings and methods is long
over due. We need to act now.
You fathers should encourage your sons to bring non-muslim girls to the mosque and do friendship spiritual non-sexual temporary marriage
cerimonies. Let these girls see how much we honor we have for women and how much dignity we bestow on them in Islam.
You should give your sons incentives like bring a new girl to the mosque and do friendship spiritual non-sexual temporary marriage
cerimony with her. We will give her a crown and give her gifts and everyone in the community will call her a sister in humanity and teach her Islam and the ways of Ahlul-Bayt (as).
If your son brings 10 girls a year buy him a car! Turn your boys into honorable young men and soldiers of the Imam of the Time and Da'is to the way if Ibraheem.
You brothers have failed to do your obligation in spreading Islam in the West. You have a lot of catching up to do. Every minute you waste is a sin.
Allah didn't bring you here and make you prosper for nothing. Use your wealth and time and energy to bring people to Islam.
You should make your sons so "cool" and admirable. Make them dress well and behave like young honorable men. Make them drive fancy cars
and be Chivelrous and gallant.
There is a saying attributed to Imam 'Ali (as) that you must not tailor your children according to your mannerisms because they have been created
for a time which is other than your time.
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Campaign for The Anti-Abuse of Temporary Marriage (Mut'ah)
salaam 'alaykum,
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How to Solve the Problem of Poverty, Orphans, Widows and Social Corruption via Spiritual Mut'ah?
By leaving all these widows and orphans and divorce women unmarried we are leaving them vulnerable to the evils of society and poverty.There is a simple solution via Spiritual Mut'ah. Please let me explain.Even if 5% or less of us do this we can change the world.We tell the unmarried women to do non-sexual unofficial cerimonial/spiritual "polygynous mut'ah marriage" according to the religious teaching of the Prophet Muhamamad and his progeny (as) in order to raise their spiritual rank by 3500% and preserve your faith by 50%.This way we can protect the dignity and honor of our women from the ignorant people.See rule 2432 at http://al-islam.org/laws/marriage2.html#2430This will also protect us from anti-polygamy laws because in writing it is only a spiritual friendship marriage.
In the US because you can say it was an unofficial spiritual marriage not official literal, it won't be breaking any laws.If later on in the relationship the woman waives the condition in rule 2432 that is no ones business except the couples. They don't have to reveal to the public what they do behind closed doors. On paper it is only a spiritual friendship marriage so it breaks no rules at all. We say that a man and a woman can not be friends unless they do this type of spiritual friendship marriage. They can't touch us. This is also a great replacement for girlfriend/boyfriend relationships at school that many of our children are doing without their parents knowledge. We should encourage them to be transparent in their relationships with persons of the opposite gender to nurture honesty and love rather than shame and sin. This can also take the place of unislamic engagement before marriage where many couples are doing haraam thingslike simply holding hands! Why leave them to sin when they can do things the proper and mustahabb way?
see my articles at http://geocities.com/aly2k1We desperatel need to break the stigma of temporary marriage so Islam will spread in this country.If polygyny becomes normal in our communities it will save a lot of marriages.See my domino effect of divorce article at http://geocities.com/aly2k1Please let us discuss this. If this is not the solution to the problem of surplus women and high divorce rates then what is?
There are many traditions that say that a married person's Salaat of 2 raka'ah equals 70 raka'at of a non-married person.That means that by being married, be it mut'ah or daa'im, your degree in the presence of Allah is raise by 3500%!The Prophet said that marriage protects half of your faith.Faith and intelligence go hand in hand in Islam. They are synonymous so by enhancing and protecting faith one enhances intelligence.There are many traditions that say that if you die an unmarried person Allah will not be pleased with you on the day of judgement, and the Imams say that I would rather give up everything in the world if I owned it then to stay unmarried for a single day.A woman comes to the Imam and says I am Mutabattilah, which is basically a derivative of Batool.The Imam asks her what do you think it means? She said, I remain unmarried and believe that that raises my rank with Allah.The Imam got angry and said go away. Are you better than Fatimah al-Zahraa There is no woman greater than Fatimah.If being unmarried was a virtue in Islam then Fatimah would be unmarried too but she wasn't.عن الإمام الرضا عليه السلام : � إنَّ امرأة سألت أبا جعفر عليه السلام فقالت : أصلحك الله إنّي متبتلة، فقال لها : وما التبتل عندك ؟ قالت : لا أريد التزويج أبداً ، قال : ولِمَ ؟ قالت : ألتمس في ذلك الفضل ، فقال : انصرفي فلو كان في ذلك فضل لكانت فاطمة عليها السلام أحقُّ به منك ، إنّه ليس أحد يسبقها إلى الفضل � (2).
) أمالي الطوسي 1 : 380. وبحار الأنوار 103 : 219.
http://www.rafed.net/books/aam/osra-fi-almojtamae/02.htmlThis is in both Sunni and Shi'i references. Anyone know the Shi'i references?Even if you disbelieve that this is the time what will we do about the problem of surplus women in the Shi'a community?It is easy to criticize but if polygyny is not the solution what is? Lake of acceptance of polygyny has made the divorcerates in our communities sky rocket. Most cases of divorce are because a man did mu'tah but what are these singlewomen to do if they don't "steal" a husband for themselves?how many of you have known of cases a married man doing mut'ah with a single shi'i woman secretly, the first wife finding out eventually and the 1st wife demanding a divorce?After 10 years that same very 1st wife secretly does mut'ah with another married man and his own first wife finds out eventually and his own 1st wife demands a divorce?Don't you see brothers and sisters. We can reverse the domino effect in the other direction if we educate and encourage polygyny. What will happenif we succeed is that the non-muslim single women will come to Shi'i Islam motivated by our acceptance of Polygyny as a normal and honorableinstitution and their recognition of the truth of 12er Shi'i Islam. We can't lose!Even the non-muslim men will come to Shi'i Islam because they would love to have 2 wives and it is perfectly fine so long as he is just because the non-muslim women were jealous and he used to cheat behind his non-muslim wife's back but now he doesn't have to.non muslim women would prefer being married polygynously to a good man who is loyal and loving than a bad man who cheats behind her back constantly and where all co-wives love each others like sisters rather than being jealous of one another.
How to Solve the Problem of Poverty, Orphans, Widows and Social Corruption via Spiritual Mut'ah?
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the way i see it, polygyny is the default, not the exception in Islam. we
have considered monogamy the default due to western and christian influence.
the west teaches, 'sir, you must have 1 wife only but if you want to have
girlfriends or visit prostitutes without your 1st wifes knowledge that is fine.'
as a result our men are ashamed of having 2nd wives and our women are ashamed of
being 2nd wives or allowing or tolerating our husbands having 2nd wives, if we
are married women.'
many of our men unfortunately are treating our widowed and divorced women in our
community like prostitutes by hiddenly doing mut'ah with them without their 1st
wifes knowledge. this can ruin a woman's soul because in this situation she is
not usually given love, respect, dignity and support. if she is being used only
for her body, this is wrong. our divorced, widowed and orphaned women in our
community are honorable and deserve to be treated with honor. they are no lesser
in rank then our 1st wives at home or our mothers, daughters and sisters.
i am trying to break the stigma of mut'ah and polygyny and discourage the hidden
mut'ahs. our shi'ah should do mut'ah openly and publicly in an honorable and
dignified manner. our prophet and 12 imams (as) did mut'ah. there is nothing to
be ashamed of. our prophet and 12 imams were polygynists. there is nothing to be
ashamed of.
previously the shi'ah hid mut'ah not because they were ashamed of it but because
of fear of their enemies. we should not hide this institution anymore. we should
be proud of it. mut'ah can be abused when done hiddenly. when done publicly and
transparently its potential for abuse is brought towards 0.
many ask, would be happy if your sister or daughter do mut'ah? i say, when 2nd
permanent marriage is not an option because of western laws and it is done
transparently and publically with conditions that are favorable to her then YES
I would be very honored and happy with my sister or daughter for following the
Sunnah of the Holy Prophet and the 12 Imams (as). Our Imams have taught that
every believer should do mut'ah at least once in their lifetime to establish the
Sunnah. We must be proud of following the 12 Imams. If we are even 1% ashamed of
their teachings we are not true believers. We are fakes.
there is a surplus of women in our communities. polygyny is no longer an option,
it is a neccessity.
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