JUST GIVE IT TIME, THEN YOU'LL BE HOME

B.J HUNNICUTT, M.D.

MILL VALLEY, CALIFORNIA

For nearly 2 long years I wanted nothing more than to be home with my wife and daughter. Then, the closest thing I had to home was a tent shared with two other men and the still, our lifeline. The closest thing to a family was the people I worked with each day, Margaret, Colonel Potter, Hawkeye, I could even call Charles family, if not then at least a friend at times. Now, I am home and whilst I lay in bed next to my wife, her dreams not filled with the death and destruction like those of mine, I have time to think, so here goes. When I got drafted, my brother, Chris, said that I would be home in no time, the Korean Conflict, as they called it back home, couldn't last much longer. Once in Korea, there was the simple act of changing a time on a piece of paper. Just because of those few different numbers, a family won't have to think of Christmas as the day their Daddy, husband, son, brother, whomever he was to each person died. And, now I'm home. I arrived at San Francisco International Airport, ran to greet Peg and Erin. Peggy hugged me, we kissed, she was crying but I knew she would never admit to it later. I reached to hold my daughter, who had grown from four months old to two years, and she buried her head in Peg's shoulder. I tried again, but she just held closer to Peg.

"Give her time, B.J," Peg said soothingly, much as she did when she sand Erin to sleep, if she even did that anymore. "She isn't used to new people. She'll come around. Just give it time."

I arrived home, not the olive drab tent home, but the small cozy Mill Valley home. There was my family, all three brothers, my Mom and Dad, even some cousins I hadn't seen since I was a kid. All welcoming me home and boy was I glad to be there. There isn't much that I can say anymore, I suppose I've ranted enough in my head for tonight, and I am getting tired. They say time heals all wounds. It doesn't, but it sure can come close. Especially little things like your daughter calling you "Papa" for the first time that day or neighbors dropping by to welcome you home, the ones that weren't gathered in your house last week at least. Or maybe it isn't time that heals these things at all, but having people all around you who care and the weekend phone calls to your buddy in Maine. Maybe it's being home.

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