paul

paul is my soulmate. we met at work in may of 1999, became best friends almost immediately... we started dating in august and we will be married in september of 2000. he is the first man i've dated in a long time that isn't younger than me. he is exactly fourteen and one half months older... and it shows. when i met paul, he had been living alone in his condo for two years. he pays his own bills, cleans his own messes, goes to the store by himself, and does his own laundry. i didn't think a man like this existed. i was so tired of dating men that wanted me to be their mother, that i was about to give up hope. best of all,  i love to spend time with him, and he with me. we're both homebodies that have our social sides surface from time to time -and  we get along so famously, that sometimes it almost boggles me.