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s'g}
lzz{s ljgfsf ;b}j
d]/f egfOx?
–
s]xL gx'g]n] 7"nf] rLhsf] ;kgf b]Vg' :jefljs xf] .
–
;'Gb/ cg'xf/eGbf :j:y cfTdf ePsf] dfG5] /fd|f] / u'0fjfg x'G5 .
–
Psf]xf]/f] rfxgf / sfNklgs ;kgfn] dfq k|]dnfO{ ;fy{s agfpg jf t'Nofpg ;Qm}g
.
–
dfG5]n] b'v kfof] eg] ;'v vf]H5, ;'v kfof] eg] ax'nfpF5 .
–
csf{sf] lbn ghnfp, cfˆgf] lbg klg s'g} lbg hNg ;S5 .
–
s;}nfO{ k|]d u/, t/ ljZjf; slxNo} gu/ lsgls k|]dsf] cflTds ldngsf]
If0f;Dd klg
k|Zgjfrs lrGx v8f eO/xG5 .
–
dflg; To:tf] k|f0fL xf] h;sf] ;kgf slxNo} k'/f x'Fb}g .
–
b'Mv;Fu} afFRg l;s, ;'v t s]xL If0fsf nflu dfq xf] , b'Mv t k6s – k6s
cfO/xG5 .
–
ltdL;Fu sf]xL JolQm cfˆg} kfOnfaf6 cfslif{t x'G5g\ eg] Tof] ltd|f] bf]if
xf]Og, t/ dg g8'afp
ToxfFaf6 lg:sg w]/} sl7g x'G5 .
–
a'Eg] dfG5];Fu lxt vf]n, To; dfWodn] ltdLnfO{ ;Gt'i6 x'G5 eg], t/ === efj
gj'Eg]
dfG5]n] /fd|f] egfOnfO{ cgy{df abn]/
ltd|f] lxtnfO{ nyflnË kfl/lbg]5 .
–
lhjg Pp6f zLif{sxLg zAb xf], To;}n] cy{ w]/} nfUg ;S5, ltdL Pp6} dfy{ cy{
/f]h .
–
aflx/L cfj/0fsf] af]nL / leqL efjgfsf] zAb jf efj km/s x'G5, t/ aflx/L
cfsif{0fsf]
af]nLn]
dxTj /fVg] u5{ .
–
dfG5] hlt
lzlIft 5 , cfˆg} Jojxf/ clzlIftsf] jftfj/0fdf h]lnPsf] b]lvG5 .
–
;+3ifL{ af:gf / /f]df~rs af:gfdf w]/} cGt/ x'G5 .
–
;DklQ / ?kdf nfUg] cfFvf ;Fw} s'|/ eO/x]sf] x'G5 .
–
cfˆgf] ;fd'Gg] c?n] tfl/km u/]sf] ;'Gg' ;fx|} g/dfOnf] If0f dnfO nfU5,
tfl/km ug]{k5{ eg] dgleq}af6 u/ d}n] dgsf]
efjaf6 g} tfl/km u/]sf] a'em]sf] x'G5' .
–
dg / dlitissf] /]vflÍt s0fx? efj JoQm ug]{ tl/sfaf6 klg :ki6 x'G5 eg]
s'g}
JolQmsf] k|ToIf cfj/0faf6 klg k|i6
x'ghfG5 .
–
dnfO{ slkm / lgnf] /ª dgk5{ lsgeg] ulx/fTds / k|sfzsf] b'j} cg'e'lt d}n]
oL /ªaf6 k|fKt ul//x]sf] 5' .
–
Pp6f ;'vL lhGbuL agfpg x/]s ltd|f lautsf kfOnfx? ltd|f] hLjg;fyL;Fu
ljZjf;?kn] v'n:t kf/ t/, ofb /fv ======= p;n] /fd|f] s'/fnfO{ cgy{ nfpg] df}sf
gcfcf];\ .
—
b[li6sf]0fnfO{ k|efj kfg]{ csf]{ tTj Jojxf/ xf] . hg' JolQm;Fu Jojxf/ u/]sf]
tkfOF;u cg'ej
5 eg] p;nfO{ x]g]{ tkfOsf] b[li6sf]0f cnu x'g ;S5 . v eGg] JolQm;Fusf]
Jojxf/ c;n
/x\of]
eg] p;nfO{ x]g]{ b[li6sf]0f cnu agfpg ;lsG5 . To;} u/L /fd|f] sfdsf]
cg'ej / g/fd|f]
sfdsf]
cg'ejn] b[li6sf]0fdf c;/ kfb{5 .
–
c;n b[li6sf]0f /fVg] dflg;sf] JolQmTjdf o:tf] u'0f /xG5 ls h;sf] dfWodn]
p ;lhn} lrlgg
;Qm5 . To:tf JolQm ljgd|, w}o{jfg, cfTdljZjf;L / c?sf] Vofn /fVg]
k|j[Qsf x'G5g\ . o:tf
JolQmx? cfkm}+ / c? af6 klg pRr Pj+ /fd|f] kl/0ffdsf] cfsf+Iff /fVb5g\ .
x/ df};ddf kmNg] kmn
h:t} ;sf/fTds b[li6sf]0f /fVg]x?nfO{ :jfut ul/G5 .
–
;j{;Ddt… eGg] egfO{ b'?kof]u x'Fb} lgDg >]0fLsf sd{rf/L, k|zf;s / /fhgLlt
sdL{ ;d]tTo:t}
unt jf6f]df lx8\g] u/]sf 5g\ .
–
xfdLnfO{ yfxf 5, unt kmxdLjf6 xfd|f] ;dfh u|:t 5 . ;jfn t xfdLn] cf—cfkm}+
/
xfd|f] ;dfh jbNg] s'/f p7fO{/x]sf 5f}+ . ;dfh kl/jt{gsf] lhDdf lnPsf] jtfpg]x?n]
ToxL sfd ub}{ cfP hf]
klxn]sfn] ub}{ cfP . cyf{t Ifl0fs :jfy{ / xfgyfkn] JolQut ?kdf pgLx? t ;lk|P
xf]nfg\, t/
;dfh kl/jt{gsf] kl/0ffd cfPg . ;sf/fTds eGbf gsf/fTds kIf xfjL eof] .
xfdLn] ;s/fTds b[li6sf]0f /fVbf x'g]
kmfO{bf jf/] rrf{ ug{ h?/L 5 .
–
pTkfbgzLntf j9fpg c;n ljrf/n] ;xof]u k'/\ofpF5 . j:t" jf ef}lts
pTkfbg dfq k"FhL xf] eGg]
xfd|f] 5f]6f] ;f]rfO x'g ;Sb5 . af}l4s / ;fF:s[lts pTkfbgzLntf Tof] eGbf dxTk"0f{ xf] . o;} u/L
c;n
ljrf/ ePsf dflg;x? dfq ldnLh'nL sfd ug]{ k|j[lQ ePsf x'G5g\ .
xfdL sxfFsf] kd{, k/]nL sf]
Joj:yf cToGt /fd|f] lyof] . clxn] Tof] k|yf x/fpFb} uPsf] 5 .
–
Positive Attitude sf]
s'/f ubf{, To:tf] :jefj ePsf JolQmn] ;d:of ;dfwfgsf] nlfu e"ldsf
v]Ng ;S5g\ . o;}u/L u'0ffTds j[l4 ug{ o:tf JolQmn] ;3fpg ;S5g\ . j:t"
/ ljrf/ b'j}sf]
u'0f:t/ k|lt ;sf/fTds ;f]+rn] 7"nf] of]ubfg lbG5 . o;sf cltl/Qm
efOrf/f ;+jGw
ljsf; ug'{ / jkmfbf/Ltfdf j[l4 Nofpg'
To:tf] rl/q ePsf JolQmsf] csf]{ u'0f x'g] 5 .
–
Negative attitutde
/fVg] JolQmx? k|fo M tgfju|:t x'G5g\ . tgfj u|:t /xg' :jf:Yosf] nlfu xfgL
s/s 5 . o:tf] kl/l:yltdf xfdL dWo w]/}n] cf}ifwL ;]jg u/]/ tgfj sd ug{ lt/
nfUb5f}+ . t/ x/]s j:t", 36gf /
JolQmnfO x]g]{ b[li6sf]0fdf
kl/jt{g u/]/ hj xfdL
Positive attitutde
u|x0f ub{5f}+,
tgfj cfkm}{+ x6]/ hfG5 . cf}ifwLsf] h?/L kb}{g .
–
tkfO{ xFl;nf] / :j:Yo /xg ;Sg' x'G5 . To:tf] JolQmnfO{ h;n] klg ?rfpF5g\
. sfd vf]Hbf klg
To:tf] JolQmnfO{ k|fyldstf lbO{G5 . o;sf cltl/Qm JolQmTj lgdf{0fddf ;d]t
;sf/fTds ;f]r
ePsf]nfO{ /fd|f] :yfg /xG5 . tkfO{ hxfF sfd ug'{xf];\ t/ v'zL ;fy Jojxf/
ug'{ ;Sg'x'g]5 .
cfzfnfUbf] / e/kbf]{ JolQmTj b]z / ;dfhsf] klg k"FhL xf] .
–
;j} ;Fu c;n gftf sfod u/]/ cufl8 a9\g' dfgj hfltsf] pTs[i6 :jefj xf] .
pTs[i6 ;f]rfO
ePsfx?n] dfq tTsflng kmfPbf / lgtfGt lghL kmfObfsf] ;+ls0f{
3]/fdf a:g rfxG5g\ .
–
lxGb" wd{ cg';f/ dflg;n] d[To'k"j{ s:tf] sfdgf /fVb5 p;sf]
k'gh{Gd To;} cg's'n x'g] ub{5 elgPsf]
5 .
–
cg]sf]+ dxfk'?if PP6f ;+of]u
xf]O{g . Æ " Success
is not a accident it is a result of our
atittude" ;kmntfnfO{ g s'g} 6s jf lr7\7f ;Fu
bfFHg' x'Fb}g
–
Success is the progressive realization of
worthy goal Æ
cyf{t\ d"Nojfg nIosf] nuftf/
k|fKtLsf] gfd g} ;kntf xf] .
–
ltdLn] hLjgdf wg u'dfof}+, s]xL klg u'dfPgf}+ . :jf:Yo u'dfof} eg] s]xL
u'dfof} t/ r/Lq u'dfof}
eg] ;j} s'/f u'dfpg] 5f}+ . Æ7"nf a8f xf}+ eg]/ dfq k'Ub}g, xfd|f] v/fj r/Lqn]
;j} s'/f ;dfKt eP/
hfg] 5 . c;n / v/fj r/Lqn] xfd|f] hLjgsf] ;kmntf / c;kmntf lge{/ ub{5 .
r/Lq w]/} u'0fx?sf] d]n xf] . of]
o:tf] n's]sf] :jfledfg xf], hf] cTofrf/sf] lj?4 pleO{/xG5 .
–
h'g t/xn] ;'gnfO{ s;L nufP/ s'g
g+j/sf] xf] eGg] lrlgG5 . xL/fnfO{ sf6]/ / /u8]/ rdlsnf]
agfO{G5 . cTolws tfkqmd ljgf kmnfd :6Ln aGb}g . 7Ls To;} u/L cK7\of/f]
cj:yfdf JolQmsf]
r/Lq b]lvG5 . JolQmsf] kl/ro ;+s6sf] a]nfdf x'g] u5{ . clxn] dfgj ;Eotfsf]
;+s6sf] 38L xf] .
of] pbf/ ljh]tf / ;dembf/ k/flht x'g] ;do xf] . xfdLn] klg To:tf] ;+odtf
w}o{tf lng] xf] ls Û
–
hLjgdf xfdLn] y'k|} ulNt u/]sf 5f}+ . cfˆgf] ulNtaf/] a'Eg] tLg y/Lsf
dflg; oxfF
5g\,Ps
y/Ln] o;nfO{ b]v] gb]v] em}+
ub{5g\ , bf];|f] y/Ln] uNtL O{Gsf/ u5{g / t];|f]n] l:jsf5{g\
;fy} To;af6
s]xL l;Sg] u5{g\ . xfdLn] cfkm"FnfO{ s'g k+lQmdf /fVg] < cjZo klg t];|f] y/Lsf] dflg; vt/fdf
x'g ;S5 t/ ;fxzLnf] / ;kmn pxL x'g
;Sb5 .
–
dflg;sf] hlt sdhf]/ b[li6sf]0f x'G5g\ . xfd|f] k/+k/f ToxL sdhf]/Laf6
kmfO{bf p7fpg] vfnsf] 5 . k/+k/fjfbLx?n] o;/L g} k5f}6] ;f]+r /fVb5g\ / ;d:ofsf]
;xL lgsf;
lgsfNg ;Sb}gg\ . o:tf] k/+k/f unt xf] / ;dfhsf] dfgl;stfdf cfd'n kl/jt{g Nofpg
l;sfpg' k5{ . kl/jt{g
;sf/fTds x'g' k5{ g ls gs/fTds Û
–
xfdLn] cfkm"F of ;dfhnfO{ Ps}rf]6L ! xhf/ k|ltzt ;'wf/ ePsf] x]g{
rfxG5f}+ . To:tf] ;f]+rfO{sf]
z'?jft klg ! k|ltztaf6 x'G5 eGg] lj;{G5f}+
. dfqfTds
kl/jt{gaf6} u'0ffTds kl/jt{gdf km8\sf] dfg]{ xf] . To;}n] ! k|ltzt
ljhojf6 z'?
u/]/ ;f/f lhGbuLnfO{ ljhodf abNg l;sf}+ .
–
cGttf]uTjf ljhosf] dfnf ;Ton] g} klx/g] 5 . cfjZostf 5 s]jn w}o{tfsf] .
o;sf] cy{
efUojfbL jg]/ 9'Ss x'g' d"v{tf xf] . kf}/fl0fs u|Gy uLtfdf elgPsf] 5
sd{ ug{ 5f]8\g' x'Fb}g . …efUo 5
eg]/ 8f]sf]df b"w b'xg yfNof] eg] cl8G5 / < Æ o:tf s]xL pvfgx?
5g\ h;n] xfd|f] hLjg k|j[lQ
;'wf/ ug{ d2t ub{5g\ . ljgf d]xgt jf
;+3if{ lagfsf] k|flKt sf]/f sNkgf x'G5 .
–
k'tnLsf] hLjgrqm k|fo M h;f] ;j} ljBfyL{n] k9\g] ub{5g\ . hj
of] Ko"kf cj:yfjf6
hGdg yfNb5 ,
To;j]nf s7Lg ;+3if{ ub{5 . vf]kfaf6 jflx/ lg:sg vf]Hg] k'tnLsf] jRrf
56k6fpF5 . dflg;sf] jRrf klg cfdfsf]
ue{jf6 jflx/ lg:sg vf]Hbf
56k6fpF5g\ . ToxL 56k6fx6 pgLx?sf]
;+3if{ xf] . ;+3if{sf] sf/0f pgLx? jflx/
lg:sbf zlQm k|fKt ub{5g\ . To; kl5 dfq aflx/L
jftfj/0fdf afFRg] ;fdYo{ pgLx?df k|fKt x'G5 .
–
;+;f/nfO{ o'4 u/]/ lhTg ;lsPnf, t/ h:n] cfkm}dfly lhTg ;Sb}g Tof] ;j}
eGbf sfo/
/ sdhf]/
xf] . …
–
xf/sf] nflu cGTo gjgfpg]x? o;/L g} ;kmn x'G5g\ . ;+;f/df Pp6} xf/nfO{
clGtd agfpg]x?sf]
;+Vof j9L 5 . To;}n] w]/}n] h] eG5g\
ToxL ;To xf] eGg] xfd|f] b[li6sf]0f unt 5 .
–
Try not to be a man of Success, but rather try to be a man of value.
–
;[hgzLntf, vf]Hb} lx8]/ k|fKt x'g] s'/f xf]O{g . of] jnfjfg / wgjfn sxfF
jf; j:b5
eGg]
klg 5}g .
–
;kmn JolQm s'g} dxfg sfd ub}{gg\ .
–
tkfO{sf] hLjgsf] ;kmntf /
c;kmntfsf] ;xof]uL cfˆgf cToGt glhs 7flgPsf ;fyL x'g
;Sb5g\
. sltko ;fyLx? tkfO{sf pGgltsf] ;xof]uL jGb5g\ . sltko cToGt 3lgi7sf]
kmfO{bfdf gfhfoh 9+un] pgLx?n] PstkmL{ lnPsf
x'g ;S5g\ . ;fyLsf] cy{ cjZo klg p+rf] x'g' k5{ .
;xof]u lng dfq
vf]Hg' eof] eg] tkfO{n] s]xL ;do k5L p;nfO{ u'dfpg' kg]{ 5 . lbgsf] nlfu
k|of; ug'{ eof] eg] ;+w]
lng klg ;Sg' x'g] 5 . Psnf}6L, lghL :jfy{ tkfO{sf] hLjgsf] xfgLsf/s kIf
xf] .
lx/f ltldlN;gf
lh/L, xf68fF8f, gofF ahf/
xfn
sf]6]Zj/ – #%, hl8j'6L
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