In The Name of Allah, The Compassionate, The Merciful
"And whosoever does not judge by what Allâh has revealed, such are the Kâfirûn." (5:44 Interpretation of Meaning)Imitating the kuffar can be of two kinds: the obvious one of imitating their manners, their customs, their appearance, and the not so obvious imitation of their ideas, their way of life, their system of government and their laws.
“The genesis of truth is Allah alone, so do not be among those who do not believe.” (3:60 Interpretation of Meaning)
"Whoever imitates a group, then he belongs to them." Abu Dawood, narrated by Hadhrat Ibn Umar (R.A).
Another relevant example is the much-debated issue of Islam and so-called "democracy". For Islam, so-called "democracy" is irrelevant: the Islamic question to ask is: is the government of that or this Muslim country acting in accord with Quran and Sunnah? Is their law Shariah and Shariah only?
To frame questions about Islam and Muslims using the terms, the ideas, of the kuffar is to imitate the kuffar.
The essential criteria to determine what is, or is not, imitating the
kuffar is the criteria of judgement. A Muslim should use the Quran and the
Sunnah, and these alone, as their guides, their standard, their criteria.
That is, Quran and Sunnah determine what is right, and what is wrong, and
every issue should be referred to them for guidance.
“Correct guidance is the guidance of Allah.” (3:73 Interpretation of meaning)
"Whomsoever seeks a Way of Life other than Islam, it shall not be accepted, for in the life to come they shall be the ones who have lost." (3:85 Interpretation of meaning)
Imitating the kuffar is kufr - a concealment of the reality, the
truth, of Tawhid - and thus ignorance, a negation of one's Islam, because
we have been commanded, by Allah (Subhanahu wa Ta'ala) to judge only by the
Quran and Sunnah, and to follow the perfect example of the Prophet Muhammad
(salla Allahu 'alayhi wa sallam) who revealed the perfect, the complete,
Way of Life which is Al-Islam.
"This day I have perfected your Way of Life for you and completed My Favour upon you and have chosen for you as your Way of Life Al-Islam"
(5:3 Interpretation of Meaning)
"The best of people is my generation, then those who come after them, then those who come after them." [Reported by Bukhari and Muslim - Mutawaatir. Muslim, Narrated 'Aisha ].
"In the Messenger of Allah you have the perfect example to follow." [33:2 Interpretation of Meaning]Our role models - those whom we as Muslims should admire and seek to imitate - are the Prophet Muhammad (salla Alllahu 'alayhi wa sallam), al-Khulafaa' al-Raashidoon and As-Salaf as-Saalih. If we follow their example, we shall, in our outward behaviour, distance ourselves from the kuffar. But to distance ourselves from the kuffar in our minds and in our hearts - to live, to breathe, to think Islam - is to embrace Islam and Islam only by consciously rejecting the way of life of the kuffar: their ideas, their system of government, their type of society, the very terms they use to describe their ignorant, dishonourable way of life.