My mom told me along time ago when i was about 16, that i should think of number 1, you have to take care of yourself, and sometimes in life you may piss off a couple of people and if you do, you do, thats part of life, but always take care of number 1 and be true to yourself.

Just before she passed away, i saw her and i think she knew inside of her heart that she wasn't going to make it and she gave me a hug and told me she loved me and it didn't matter what happens or what is said, because she always loved me and I will always be her daughter, and she is right, you can't stop people from talking or thinking the way they do.

Who are people to judge ones life or to judge you on pure dirty gossip, no one has the right to treat you with disrespect, no one has the right to treat you with unkindness, and no one has the right to just treat you badly, when in return nothing was done to them.

Everyone makes mistakes in life, some learn from them, some just continue. But, always mind your own buisness, stick your nose in your own matters and let people be who they are and let them learn by their own mistakes.