Beliefs

'Things can be happen if you set your mind into it!'

A belief is a thing or an event that people believe it happened or it exist. If a person thinks that one thing is true, then that thing can be real to the person. I believe that when a person has a belief, that belief will become real to him/her if they set their mind into it. Once it is real, it can become real to others and thus a reality.

You have to live through a day if you are happy and you have to live through the same day if you are sad... Why be sad then? If you ask me, I think it's a shame to live a sad day because you can be happy and live a great day instead of a miserable one and waste your life living that day. I always live be the quote, "Life does not matter how long you live, but if you are happy living it!" I guess that pretty much explain which choice I would pick for living through a day =)

As a child, I always believe that blood is more important than anything else. However, as I grew older and more real life experiences come, I realize that the old saying is not true. In this harsh world, you cannot depend on anyone except for yourself. As an example, I would say my parents are perfect for this: They worked hard all their lives, then moved to America while they had a little going on in their lives and have to give up everything to start from scratch. There is a lot of people who probably gone through the same thing. However, with everyone looking down upon you and telling you that you cannot do it, how many can really say they could do that? Having brothers look down upon their own flesh and blood, and even the mother looking down at the life that she gave birth to... I don't expect much from anyone cuz I am a nobody, but at least I respect other people no matter what or who they are!

'There is nothing more gratifying than the feeling of knowing that a person has been helped to live their life a little easier!' I believe that helping other people have a more satisfaction than earning a lot of money. It is definity nice to be able to buy anything your heart desires, but I feel that money cannot buy everything in the world. And I believe that the most important things in life are not material processions, but simply things from the heart. Just a word of 'Thx' from the heart is simply enough...

'Never know the pain of a wound until you get hurt...' I used to be a person whose always late or break promises. I never realize how bad it would hurt others until I was the victim... I never knew the pain of trusting someone and getting back stabbed by that person until I got wounds on my back... I am truly sorry to those of my friends who had experience my selfishness. I do not know what I can do to heal the wounds that I had cost, but I will never ever do that again in my life. And if something like that happens again, better expect a really really good excuse from me. =)

'Never date friends and never even have the thought about it' I always cherish friendship over many things, and I would never want to lose a friend. When people are dating friends, there is a chance that the relationship would work out in which is great. However, there is also a chance that it would not. And the price for that is... Friendship. A lot of people believes that when people breaks up, they can still be friends. It is possible that their friendship remains, but how many out of those actually work out? Life is always a gamble. For me, let not be friendship!

'Never dream about forever if you are not even sure about tomorrow' Whenever I see couples together, I often have a feeling of sadness within me. Throughout my life, I have met many couples and it seems to me that they never really think too far ahead in the future. Most of them enjoys the time they are together and marriage have never cross their minds... It took me the longest time before I have even the slightest idea of commitment: Giving up your time, changing your priorites, sharing your secrets, etc. I often dream of the most ideal situation: Finding someone you love and spend the rest of your life with that person... However, I do not even know what commitment is, how can I dream about eternity?