Ask Dr. David is an opportunity for individuals to ask for general information based answers to problems in living that they face. It is not therapy or counseling, and Dr. David John Berndt encourages you to see your local psychologist, lawyer or physician for either diagnosis and treatment of any medical problems, or to get legal advice. No therapist worth their salt would make a diagnosis soley over the phone (or computer). Individualized psychotherapy is also not possible by telephone, although telemedicine is making strides towards that future with televideo conferences. Your specific situation will require the advice of a lawyer or psychologist familiar with the details and specifics of your case. Also practices vary a great deal from juridiction to jurisdiction. With these things in mind, the questions and answers here are intended only as broadly educational in scope, and may be helpful in clarifying the questions you will eventually bring to your own doctor or lawyer, who will address your specific situation. Although Dr. Berndt attempts to protect your privacy, this is, after all, the internet and anyone can haul the nodes into court and get information (just ask Bill Gates about his trial).

Question: "How soon should I introduce my new boyfriend to the kids?"

I want to move out of state to go to college, will I risk losing custody if I move? He hasnt seen the kids in 6 months..."

Answers to these and others are included in the Answers page.

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