What are some good positions to try out?
The Teachings of Kama Sutra:
(See Appendix 3. The list is long enough to warrant it's own section.)
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* Both are variations of the missionary position and can be done with either
person on top:
1) Instead of the usual man's legs inside the woman's legs, have the man
place one leg _outside_ the woman's legs. The allows a "sideways"
penetration which makes my SO happy.
2) Place _both_ man's legs outside the woman's legs. This causes inward
pressure on the vagina and clitoris and tightens the vagina. We both
like this very much :) Note: If the woman is on top you must be careful
not to crush the man's testicles :(
* Have her lay on her side, bottom leg straight and top leg bent at
the knee, which is in the air. You approach her, sitting up, straddling
her bottom leg and enter her this way. This allows for *deep* entry which
your SO may or may not like.
* Penile thrusting from the right angle can pull the labia enough to
give amazing clitoral stimulation. I usually find this happens most
with rear-entry positions.
* The first is with the woman on top, her legs straight and directly over
the man's, pushing her weight backwards and forwards with her arms
(above the man's shoulders);
The other is basically the same thing with the man on top, sliding
forward and backward.
We also occasionally use a position with her legs inside mine, but on top.
We both have to be pretty energetic for this, though. It seems to produce
intense sensation, increased tightness and friction, etc., but we've never
been able to make it lead to an orgasm for my partner.
* Have the guy lie on his back legs spread wide. Have her mount with her
back towards you. Now, with your thigh between her legs bend your knee
slightly, this way she can bounce her clit on your thigh with each
stroke. With your leg you can control how much she gets... straighten
out your leg and she has to go down further to get the same
stimulation. Guess it works well for me 'cause of my 18" thighs. ;)
* A recent x-SO of mine had a favorite position, and I was wondering if
other women enjoy this also. I would enter her from behind (just like
doggy style), then while I was fully inserted she would lie down with me
on top of her. We would both place our hands underneath her (just above
were I was inserted. Then she would wiggle almost methodically. I assume
this put great pressure on the clitoris. However after a short time she
would orgasm and even sometimes multiple.
* My ex-SO much preferred doggy style. She indicated that that
was the right level of penetration. What is the position
called that has man on top, woman with legs up so far that
her knees are practically at her ears? My ex-SO did not like that,
she said penetration was too deep. Same thing with her on top,
but sitting up, making her body at right angles to mine. Also,
she says that doggy style caused some stimulation of the
clitoral and pudendal region that wasn't there in other
positions, presumably because of the movement of tissues
around the outside of the vagina during intercourse.
Upside-down position:
* That question on the purity test refers to (I believe) the people being
opposite - ie one standing upright and one standing on their hands or
head. This is a fun one, but you have to be careful that you don't stand
up too quickly afterwards if you have been upside down or you could
possibly pass out.
OR
* Have her sitting on the edge of the bed, facing away from the edge,
on your lap. Lean over forwards, holding on to a handy dresser. She does a
handstand, and you hold yourself up with one hand and hold both of you
together with the other. Good for some giggles.
* We prefer it with the man on his back, with lots of pillows under
his rear end, propping him up.. I then mount directly on top, one leg
between his and the other between his leg and arm, i.e. I am
at a 90 angle with him, sort of squatting, at least initially :-)
If I then lean forward and move up and down and around, the combination
of deep penetration and frontal rubbing of my clitoris on his leg makes
for a very interesting combination.
* standing up...my girlfriend's hanging on to my shoulders,
and her legs definitely don't touch the ground.
* My SO likes really deep penetration. She likes "doggie-style"
but she prefers variations of "in the buck" (legs over the man's
shoulders to provide deeper penetration.) Actually, as long as you get
your arms under her knees it provides the same effect -- some women,
my SO included, find it extremely uncomfortable to have their knees
pressed all the way up to their chest during intercourse and just putting
your arms under her knees or legs will lift her rear up and arch her back,
giving you a better angle to penetrate at. Also, since your arms are under
her legs, you are supporting some of her weight, so she doesn't have to
hold her own rear up for you.
When we get into this position, I've found that she prefers a sort of
rocking motion as opposed to a straight in-and-out thrusting (try
bending your own legs so that your knees come up about even with her
hips, then you'll be almost cradling her in your lap and if you rock
back and forth you will stay inside and alternate between plunging
deep and not-so-deep--this has been the easiest way for me to bring
her to orgasm).
Another thing she likes is to get on top and face away from me. I'm
living in a college apartment and I've got the bottom bunk and the bed
above has bars under it. I can grab one of these bars and pull myself up
into her, and if I go fast and hard enough, we can get the bed bouncing
pretty good and she actually bounces up off of my penis and plunges back
down onto it. She really enjoys this but it's tough for me to do it for
very long.