Is it possible for men to be multi-orgasmic?

From: [email protected] (George Sawyer)
Keywords: NEMO, Taoist Yoga, Sexual techniques
Message-ID: <[email protected]>
Date: 4 Nov 91 16:49:14 GMT

The following is a modified repost of my answer to "Postie's query"

I study and teach Taoist esoteric yoga, and among the practices are
sexual techniques which are VERY EFFECTIVE. There are solo techniques,
and partner techniques. They require ongoing practice and, for men,
realistically speaking, the partner techniques require a practising
partner.

A basic concept is that you can have an orgasm without ejaculating.
Since ejaculation takes you through the refractory period & etc. cycle
as well as emptying your fluid level, it tends to limit activity.
Remove this constraint and you can go on as long as you want.
(Have as many orgasms as you want). When you get close to the point
of ejaculatory inevitability, you perform the techniques, which pull
the sexual energy out of your testes / prostate up to your brain &
compress the prostate causing partial loss of erection & subsiding
of prostate. When the energy moves upward, you have an non-ejaculatory
orgasm.

The only way I can describe the orgasm experience is to compare it to
to some types of psychedelic drug experiences - except that you are in
control and can stop immediately if you want. The more you practice, the
longer and stronger the effects are. An orgasm of 5 to 10 minutes
is "quite easy" and you can become able to have one of more than an hour
with "determined practice". About an hour twenty minutes is my personal
best (from solo practice at that) and I made it stop because I was
getting too high.

You tend to rest for a few or several minutes after each orgasm, being
with your partner, and then optionally doing it again. Use lots of
lubricant.

There are different levels of orgasm, the initial one being a
"senses" orgasm, in which you experience amplified pleasure from all
your senses simultaneously. Since this includes touch, it is a
bodywide experience. An "unexpected" benefit for men
is that you will always have more energy after sex than before,
thus dramatically reducing the "roll off and snore" syndrome.
Also, after sex you will feel much closer to your partner and
much more connected than prior. Many people have intense experiences
of total connection and submersion into each other.

It is also a First Class system for being celibate. Completely eliminates
wet dreams, and gives you a fair amount of choice about whether to allow
yourself to become aroused or not. Over the long term you develop some
degree of control over your sexual desire in general. Feels great
(even the non-aroused solo practice), and doesn't require "struggle
and effort". The non-aroused solo practices are being done by individuals
in many Christian monasteries & nunneries in Europe.

Downsides. NOT TO BE IGNORED
For men, it only really works if your partner practices too. Otherwise
they get BORED watching you have extended orgasms while they wait.

Initially, it is QUITE DIFFICULT not to ejaculate, and you will need
cooperation from your partner at the WORST possible times - "I need to
stop NOW!".

It does not work well with promiscuity.

It takes time to learn - I'll say an average of 6 months to beginning
of competence and control, and requires 15min to 30min per day of
various meditative practices.

Realistically, most people don't stick to it long enough to be able to do
it. Success rate among persistent people is very high, and the practices
are not difficult.

Some women find it really weird if you don't ejaculate, and you can really
fuck up your relationship/marriage if you don't take care of your
significant other first and foremost. That is far more important than
mastery of sex techniques.

These techniques are not part of a religion, no Deities to believe in,
no statues, none of that.

The techniques are described quite clearly in:

"Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male sexual energy" (men's)

"Healing Love thru the Tao: Cultivating Female sexual energy" (women's)

Both are written by Mantak and Manewan Chia, and widely available at
New Age bookstores.

The pre-requisite is: "Awakening Healing Energy Thru the Tao"

Most people find these reference books a bit much, and take one day
courses. There are about 70 instructors in the USA, you can find the
nearest one by calling the Healing Tao center @ (516) 367-2701. Classes
are about $85, and there is a pre-requisite course "The Microcosmic Orbit"
which is also about $85.

DO NOT IGNORE THE SAFETY POINTS IN THE BOOKS

Happy practice!