What is the M-spot?
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I don't know if the spot I'm talking about is really the "M-spot," or
not. There's actually a *pair* of these "spots." You stimulate them
from outside the body, unlike the G-spot, which you get at from inside
the vagina. These "M-spots" are on both men and women!
They're not easy to find, and you've got to already be somewhat
sexually aroused, I think, or it won't feel like anything. I think
you probably also have to be ticklish, but maybe not.
Stand up. Take your shirt and pants off. Put your hands on your
hips. Now, feel how your hands are resting on a big "shelf" of bone?
That's your pelvic bone. Grip that bone, and get a feel for the shape
of it in that area. Now, concentrate on where the tips of your
fingers are. Feel around that area. Relax your stomach muscles
completely. (Try sitting down if it helps you relax that area.) If
you have big hands, or a small waist, your fingertips are probably
already on "the spots." Otherwise, move your hands forward, around
towards the front of you a little bit, until you find the edge of that
bone, on both sides. Now reach around that ridge of bone, pressing in
on the sides of your tummy. Dig in with your fingertips. That's it!
They're *right* on the edge of that bone, off the insides of it, not
off the top of it. Your fingertips should be somewhere just below and
to the sides of your belly-button.
I can't describe it any better than that. It's probably easier to
find if your partner does the searching, instead. If you look for the
spots yourself, you could be pressing right in them and not know it,
because it's like trying to tickle yourself -- it just doesn't work.
Get naked with your partner, do some normal foreplay for a while, and
get to where you're really ready for sex. Then have your partner
stand behind you, and have him/her put their hands on your hips, as if
you were, then proceed as given above. If they push and poke around
in that area long enough, they're bound to find the spots. They might
end up just tickling you to death, though. :-) (If it tickles,
they're not pressing hard enough.)
When they do find your M-spots, you will KNOW IT. You will feel a
fire light up inside you. Within moments, you will want to turn
around and kiss your partner so hard they suffocate. It is VERY
intense. It's kind of uncomfortable, at first, and you can't take it
for very long.
If you're SO is "moving too slow" during foreplay, go for these spots.
Things will speed up REAL fast.
Good luck ...
Sorc
Re: M-spot
I've experienced something like this, although she (my girlfriend at
the time, not a prostitute :-) touched a spot to either side of the
navel, not directly below it. 1 - 2 inches down is about right, but
then 2 - 3 inches over. It's right on the inside of the pelvic bone.
If you're wearing jeans, and you casually hang your thumbs over those
first two belt loops, the tips of your thumbs are right there.
This wasn't just a "male" thing -- it worked on her, too. It's just
ticklish if you do it too lightly, but press a little more firmly, and
it's *very* intense. It's not really orgasm-inducing, but it turns
light arousal into high arousal *really* fast. Get ready for your
partner to *tackle* you if you do this right. Use several fingers and
kind of "push in" on it, like you're kneading dough with your fingers.
So, I don't know if this is the "M-spot," but it's definitely some
kind of spot. :-) And it was great for warming up, but I don't know
what it'd be like having it stimulated during actual intercourse. If
she was on top, so the guy was relatively stationary, and she did that
"kneading" while "riding" ... hm ... I'll put that on my list of
things to try. :-)