What is and where is the G-Spot?

FIRST ARTICLE (Author: unknown)

G wiz aka g-spot aka Grafenberg spot

Summary:
1) The g-spot exists in all women.
2) sensitivity varies.
3) Reaction/interpretation/openness varies.

G-spot IS female analog to prostate. It really does exist.

The road map (can by used by a man/woman with a woman partner or
a woman on herself).

Start from the pubic bone, it is the bone running across the
lower end of the abdominal region -- between the thighs and
a little above the clitoris and labia. The g-spot is behind
this bone -- so you need to find a way around to the other side.
Fortunately, there is an alternate approach in women -- up the
vagina. The walls of the vagina are somewhat wrinkly, a testimony
to how much the vagina can stretch (say to the size of a babies
head). On the forward surface there is a smoother patch in about
2 knuckles (1.5-3 inches, 3.5-7 cm.). If a woman was to lay her
palm on to of her clitoris and curl a finger (or fingers) in to
the vagina in to a loose clench, the tips would be in the right
region. The g-spot is buried under some layers of tissue so it
may take some pressure to stimulate this area.

Repeating some general hints.

Arousal of the g-spot is usually more effective if the
woman is already sexually aroused.

Sharp or long nails are probably a no-no.
Some pressure may be necessary. Two fingers are usually
employed -- esp. since few people use mechanical
typewriters (which would give fingers strength and endurance).

Initial sensations in the woman may be a) discomfort, an urge
to urinate (the urethra from the bladder is being stimulated),
or a pleasurable sensation.

As stimulation continues (few minutes), the g-spot will begin
to swell. "Continued stimulation of the area _may_ result in
an orgasm that is often quite intense." [see above regarding
being sexually aroused -- first. No arousal -- no orgasm].

Ejaculation is possible, but the fluid is different from
vaginal secretions and from urine.

This does not work for all women. Discuss with your intimates.
Compare notes.

For some women, this area may receive stimulus in penile-vaginal
intercourse given the right angles. Rear entry ("doggie style")
may facilitate penile pressure in this region.

If the partner you are playing with is a man, you can try for a similar
effect on his prostate entering through his anus -- Long or sharp nails
are a big NO-NO. You might want to use glove or condom over fingers. I
should not need to say: DO NOT allow fecal material on or around woman's
vagina.

Note this can actually cause an ejaculation from a man without orgasm or
an intense orgasm or something in between or nothing at all.

PLEASE:

Practice safe sex. No exchange of bodily fluids -- blood, feces (which
may contain blood), semen, or female ejaculum; unless you both have been
monogamous ....

SECOND ARTICLE (author: Peter A. Merel)
ok, I got a copy of this thing from two different people, and it was
the same manual, so I guess this is the authentic one after all.

I also received an interesting letter from a girl in California that
claimed she had written the g-spot manual. I would leave her address,
but she probably wouldn't like that so if you want it, drop me a note
and I'll give it to ya.

Well, good luck finding it! I know I'll be having some fun tonight!

Okay, I've found G-spots in three women of my acquaintance. Two of them were
completely delighted with the discovery, and the other one wasn't real
crazy about it no matter what. Chacun a son gout. It took some time and
patience for one of the delighted ones, but the other delighted one reckoned
that she'd hit it by accident a few times and just not known what happened.
She responded immediately, and with gusto.

Now I guess it's time for sex-ed 101, so listen up all of you who have a
sexual interest in female anatomy. The rest of you probably ought to hit
'n' now.

For those who never had a close look before and are a bit worried, I
ought to say that, except when quite sincerely aroused, female genitals
are usually not this clearly set out. The clitoris likes to hide under
it's own little hood, the lips stick pretty close to one another, and it
is quite likely that if the owner of the genitals is standing up and
unaroused you won't really see more than some enticing tufts of hair and
maybe the outer lips. Folks whose knowledge of these matters derives
mainly from Playboy pictorials may be quite surprised that there's more
here than 'just a hole'.

Traditionally it was thought that all of the sensation available from the
female genitals derived from the lips, entrance to the vagina, and
especially the clitoris. In other words, what you see above. It was
thought that the interior of the vagina was practically numb to sexual
sensation.

Now one of those old coots who spent the seventies sticking their noses
into other people's intimate businesses was a guy called Grafenberg, if
memory serves. Dr G. had this theory that there was an area within the
vagina, which was called the Grafenberg spot or G spot, which not only was
sexually sensitive but which could trigger bigger and better female
orgasms than the clit and the exterior bits could by themselves.

Now the trouble with Dr G.'s claim was that not everyone seemed to be
able to find this spot, which he reckoned was analogous with the male
prostate gland, and those that did find it didn't necessarily like it
much, and so there was some controversy, especially in the popular press.
A number of folks who did find it and did like it eventually sussed out
the mechanics of the spot, and over the last few years there've been a
number of quite good books about it.

The story is basically this: The G-spot is a flat area about as big as
a one or two cent piece, about two inches inside the vagina. It's just
behind the pubic bone, on the vaginal wall that is closest to the
belly-button. You can reach it with your index finger. If the genitals
you're playing with are not very aroused then you might have difficulty
finding it, or it might not feel very interesting or nice to the owner.

The trick is to make those genitals very aroused, and then have a go at
the G-spot. The best way is probably cunnilingus, which is latin for
having a lick, but any technique that provides good stimulation of the
clitoris will do for starters.

Now bear in mind that I'm skipping over a lot here. I strongly recommend
a good deal of foreplay before diving into a woman's muff, like at least
half an hour, and longer if you like. If you can manage dinner and a good
bath beforehand, even better. Actually, I reckon that a bath or a shower
before sex is a reasonably good idea anyway, because we're dealing with
equipment that can be quite off-putting if it's on the nose when it's on
the nose, if you take my meaning. Besides, bathing is fun.

So, presuming that your woman is content with the preliminaries and
you're going hunting, you're going to have to begin by relaxing. Softly
Softly Catchee Monkey. If you're so pent up that slamming your dick in
the door has a pleasurable side to it (sorry feminists, I'm not certain
what the female equivalent to that state is) then forget all this until
you've had a bloody good rogering or two.

Once you've achieved a state of patient interest, slowly start to
stimulate the clitoris. You've got to be really careful here, because
clitori are damned sensitive little beggars, and too much of a good thing
is not really a good thing at all. Also, different clitori like different
things.

Some like quite direct stimulation, some prefer one side or the other,
others are so sensitive that they like you to mainly stick to the clitoral
hood or the labia. Some like a circular motion, and others like to be
lightly flicked back and forth. The best way to find out what your
clitoris likes is to ask it's owner, and if she doesn't know then do some
experimentation. That's fun too, so don't get pissed off if it takes a
little while to figure out what's good for you.

As I said, my preferred method is cunnilingus, but if the owner of your
clitoris doesn't like that for some reason ("no, my dear, it's not
germy and it does taste rather nice") then you'll have to use your
fingers. I find that the best thing for clitori is a nice regular
stroke, with regular exotic interludes. Basically it's the same thing
as for penises - you don't want all sorts of unpredictable jerking around,
and you don't want to feel like it's caught in a vise, and you don't want
it to feel like it's attached to a reciprocating engine going at 5000 revs.
Take it easy. If the owner of your clitoris wants more stimulation you'll
notice her writhing around and pushing it at you. If she wants less then
she'll draw away. If it's just right then she'll sit where she is and
enjoy it. Pay attention to what she does.

So, you've got a nice regular stroke going - say, seven strokes and then
something exotic, and then another seven strokes and another something
exotic. Of course the G spot is in the vagina, and you're going to
have to know what's going on in there if you're going to find it and
do something with it. Slowly insert a finger or two. Don't grab, because
that can be rude and distracting.

Now hopefully the vagina that you're dealing with is well lubricated, but
that won't necessarily be the case. If you spend a long time at this even
the juiciest woman can start to dry out, so it never hurts to have a
little lubricant handy, just in case. I'd recommend K-Y jelly, which you
should be able to find at any chemist, but there are lots of alternatives.
One that I wouldn't recommend is vaseline - too thick. Another is baby
oil - too thin, and besides we should conserve the babies :-)

You can entertain yourself by running your finger around the inside of
the vagina, trying to discern its shape. Unless your female is coming
(having an orgasm), you should probably find that the vagina is
reasonably form-fitting, although some are tighter than others. If your
female is not coming or consciously causing contractions you'll probably
find that the vagina isn't doing anything in particular, just sitting
there and producing lubricant. If you bring your finger to the front
wall of the vagina then you'll find it less yielding than the rest,
because there is a bone in front of it called the pubic bone, part of
the pelvis. If you feel along this unyielding section or just beyond you
may find a slightly raised area. This is the G spot. It might not be
raised, but it will engorge once your female starts to come.

Don't poke this spot yet. Don't do anything with it, yet. At best you
won't have any effect, and at worst you'll be distracting. You've got
to wait for your female to start to come. Now this might happen in
thirty seconds, or it might take an hour, and you've just got to be
patient and keep things regular and smooth. You'll be able to tell your
woman is coming when:

- she tells you
- she moans one hell of a lot and her breathing changes
- she flushes, over her face, neck and/or chest
- her vagina begins to flutter rhythmically around your finger

You may see all of these things, or you may see none of them. If you
miss an orgasm, don't stop unless you or she wants to. Women have
startling recuperative powers, particularly when they're receiving the
right level of attention, and generosity is its own reward. Multiple
orgasms are not mythical.

Once you believe that your woman is coming you should shift your
attention from the clitoris to the G spot. Keep up the same rhythm, but
use more pressure. You may want to keep some sort of contact with the
clitoris, but just as a penis becomes supersensitive during orgasm, to
the point of discomfort, so can a clit.

As with the clitoris, you should pay attention to whether the woman
pushes towards you, draws away from you or just sits there to gauge the
amount of pressure you're giving. You probably won't need to vary your
speed much, but pay attention to what she says she wants.

Now as you go at the G spot you'll find that your woman keeps coming
for longer than you've seen before. You may even experience that most
startling of sexual phenomena, a female ejaculation. I've seen three of
these (actually I got a mouthful), but I can't say whether the fluid
comes from the vagina or the urethra. It's quite nice, sort of like salad
dressing. It's definitely not urine, and it is probably polite and
hopefully reciprocal to swallow it.

Keep going at that G spot. Eventually you will feel the vagina draw away
from your finger - it becomes bigger and the walls get taut, and not
form-fitting, sort of like a little cave. When it does this it's time
to switch back to the clitoris. Keep up the same rhythm. When the vagina
begins to contract on your finger again, go back to the G spot.

If you keep this up for a while (and if the owner of your female
genitals wants to stop, then stop - this isn't a competition), you'll
find that the nature of the vaginal contractions changes. The cave effect
becomes less and less frequent and you can spend more and more time with
the G spot. Also, the contractions in the vagina become less simple
squeezing and fluttering, and more a sort of reverse swallowing - a
contraction that starts deep within the vagina and travels to its
entrance. It feels a bit like the vagina is trying to push your finger
out. Eventually (may take hours and patience and many tries) you've got
nothing but these push-out contractions, and you can go on as long as the
owner of the genitals wants to, and your tongue and fingers don't wear
out. If you go on this long you're almost certainly going to need some
extra lubricant, so be prepared.

There you have it. At least in my experience, women can have orgasms
that last orders of magnitude longer and seem to be much better than
those that men can have. I guess I better add a disclaimer that all of
this is only one man's experience, and I could be completely wrong about
the female genitals that you have. I'm not certain there is such a thing
as device independence where sexual equipment is concerned. I don't think
that any of the things I've advocated can do you any harm, but see your
doctor if you've doubts. The main thing is to have fun. Happy fucking.

THIRD ARTICLE (for those who prefer a more scientific approach)

From: [email protected]
Message-ID: <[email protected]>
Date: 27 Mar 92 18:19:42 GMT

The following information about female ejaculation and the
Grafenberg spot is quoted from a widely used, frequently revised
college text on human sexuality: Robert Crooks and Karla Baur,
OUR SEXUALITY, 4th ed. (Redwood City, CA:

Benjamin/Cummings Pub. Co., 1990), 117, 206-208. [HQ21.C698
1990] Cited references are given at the end of the selection.

The Grafenberg spot is an area located within the anterior (or
front) wall of the vagina, about one centimetre from the surface and
one-third to one-half way in from the vaginal opening. It is reported
to consist of a system of glands (Skene's glands) and ducts that
surround the urethra (Heath, 1984). This area is believed to be the
female counterpart of the male prostate gland and to develop from the
same embryonic tissue (Belzer, 1981; Heath, 1984).
The Grafenberg spot has generated considerable interest because
of reports that some women experience sexual arousal, orgasm, or
perhaps an ejaculation of fluid when stimulated there. There is wide
variation in response from person to person (Zaviacic et al., 1988).
(117)
In the last few years, a number of studies have reported that some
women are capable of experiencing orgasm, and perhaps ejaculation,
when an area along the anterior wall of the vagina is vigorously
stimulated (Addiego et al., 1981; Alzate & Hoch, 1986; Belzer, 1981;
Perry & Whipple, 1981; Sevely & Bennet, 1978; Whipple &
Komisaruk, 1988; Zaviacic et al., 1988). This area of erotic
sensitivity ... has been named the Grafenberg spot (or G spot) in
honor of Ernest Grafenberg (1950), a gynecologist who first noted
the erotic significance of this location within the vagina 40 years ago.
However, the presence of glandular structures in this area was noted
in the medical literature over 100 years ago (Skene, 1880). Recently,
it has been suggested that the Grafenberg spot is not a point that can
be touched by the tip of one finger but, rather, fairly large area
composed of the lower anterior wall of the vagina and the underlying
urethra and surrounding glands. Adequate stimulation of this much
vaginal tissue may require use of "the full breadth of the middle two
fingers and at least two thirds of their lengths" (Heath, 1984, p. 205)
Robert Mallon (1984), a pathologist and medical researcher,
recently presented evidence of glandular material similar to prostate
tissue in the Grafenberg area of 42 females examined by postmortem
autopsies. Corroboration of this research was provided by another
study in which complete urethras and surrounding tissue from 17
autopsied females and a portion of a urethra from one surgical
specimen were examined. Over 80% of the specimens had
prostatelike glandular tissue, the majority of which contained
substances known to be produced by the male prostate (Heath,
1984).
The Grafenberg spot, or area, may be located by "systematic
palpation of the entire anterior wall of the vagina between the posterior
side of the pubic bone and the cervix. Two fingers are usually
employed, and it is often necessary to press deeply into the tissue to
reach the spot" (Perry & Whipple, 1981, p. 29). This exploration
may conducted by a woman's partner, as shown in Figure 6.9
[Diagram omitted] Some women are able to locate their Grafenberg
spot through self-exploration. (206)
During initial searching for the sometimes elusive Grafenberg
spot, a woman or her partner must rely on the sensations produced by
manual stimulation. When the area is located, women report a variety
of initial sensations, including a slight feeling of discomfort, a brief
sensation of needing to urinate, or a pleasurable feeling. After a
minute or more of stroking the sensations usually become more
pleasurable, and the area may begin to swell to a discernible size.
Continued stimulation of the area may result in an orgasm that is often
quite intense.
Perhaps the most amazing thing about Grafenberg spot orgasms is
that they are sometimes accompanied by the ejaculation of fluid from
the urethral opening. Four researchers describe their observation of
this event:

[Begin quote] With the aid of the subject's husband, four of us
(Addiego, Belzer, Perry, and Whipple) were able to observe her
response to digital massage of her Grafenberg spot, which led to
expulsion of liquid, and reportedly and apparently to orgasm, on
several occasions. On none of these occasions did stimulation of the
clitoris, direct or otherwise, appear to occur. Orgasmic expulsions
occurred after less than a minute of stimulation; they were separated
in a multi- orgasmic series by similarly brief periods of time. The
urethral area was clearly exposed in bright light, and there was
absolutely no doubt that the liquid was expelled from the urethral
meatus. Sometimes it exuded from the meatus. At other times it was
expelled from one to a few centimetres. On one observer occasion,
expulsion was of sufficient force to create a series of we spots
covering a distance of more than a meter. (Addiego et al., 1981, p.
17) [End quote] (207)
Research indicates that the source of this fluid is the "female
prostate" .... The ducts from this system empty directly into the
urethra. In some women Grafenberg orgasms result in fluid being
forced through these ducts and out the urethra. In view of the
homologous nature of the Grafenberg spot tissue and the male prostate,
we might speculate that the female ejaculate is similar to the prostatic
component of male seminal fluid. This notion has been supported by one
study in which specimens of female ejaculate were chemically analyzed
and found to contain high levels of an enzyme, prostatic acid phosphatase
(PAP), characteristic of the prostatic component of semen (Addiego et
al., 1981).
Many women report that the fluid has a mild semenlike scent. A
later study of six female ejaculators failed to differentiate samples
of their urine and the fluid they ejaculated during sexual response
(Goldberg et al., 1983).
However, a still more recent study of seven women who ejaculate
reported that the collected urine and ejaculate samples differed
substantially in the amount of PAP present (Belzer et al., 1984). The
inconsistency in these findings may be due, at least in part, to a
methodological problem arising from the fact that both ejaculate and
urine are delivered through the urethra.
A very recent study reported finding concentrations of fructose in
the female ejaculate (Zaviacic et al., 1988b). (... fructose is a major
component of male ejaculate.) The fructose level in the orgasmic
expulsions of women is considerably higher than that found in their
urine, a finding that "suggests that the female ejaculate cannot be
simply regarded as urine ..." (Zaviacic et al., 1988b, p. 323). We
can expect that the controversy over the biochemistry of the female
ejaculate will continue until, hopefully, further research clarifies the
precise nature of this fluid. (208)

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