Maille's Chamber-Alt.Lifestyles

For those of you not "into" BDSM,but curiousity got the better of you(or you had no idea where that last link you clicked would take you) I invite you to stay and look around.
At most it may awaken a dormant side of you you never knew,or would aknowledge, was there.
And at the very least,you just may learn something.

I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for over thirteen years now and have found it overall to be a very complimentary part of my relationships.
   I say overall because not all of my relationships where BDSM was involved were positive and enjoyable,but then I think we've all had those no matter what your relationships entale.
   Just thought I'd throw that in so you don't think I'm only promoting the good because I've never experienced the bad.

Okay,that said,where was I?
Ahh yes...I was talking about me.(Jeez,did that sound narcisisstic or what?)
Anyway....

I consider myself a switch,which means I am comfortable in either the dominate or submissive role.
   However lately I prefer to be in the submissive position,but only and I stress ONLY to my current Dom.
    This doesn't mean I don't still enjoy being Domme to the right male or female and am quite adept and experienced in that role. And hey,I get to play with flogs and assorted impliments to satiate my sadistic tendencies.
   After a very long,mentally and emotionally taxing year I find myself needing to reestablish my personal boundaries and redefine who I am and I feel with the support,comfort and guidance of a loving and caring Dom,I will succeed in this task.